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  1. got told that i "flaunt my trauma" tonight.

    1. Capulet


      I hope you laughed at their ignorance and stupidity.  That's what comments like that are chalked up to.  Please don't take them seriously.  Instead, you keep your head held up high, hang in there, and talk about whatever it is you need to talk about. You deserve to heal, and sometimes, the only way we can is to discuss it and give it the attention it warrants. :throb:  Sending hugs.

    2. snmls


      I'm sorry.  That was a really insensitive thing for someone to say.  

  2. Turns out wanting to be someone's Knight in Shining Armor is just codependency in disguise!

  3. anyone else hate being told "i love you"?

    1. Free2Fly


      Safe hug :hug: if ok?

      im sorry it's like that for u.

    2. EmptyInside


      I can just about cope with my parents (safe peoples who I live with) telling me occasionally that they love me, my brothers could probably get away with it if it was an emotional time. But anyone else? Heck no, I hate it! It makes me feel really awkward and put on the spot. My ex used to tell me he loved me (he was a bad man) and used to make me say it back. But my awkwardness and refusal to say I loved anyone stemmed from much earlier... I don’t feel many emotions and the ones I do feel are rarely strong enough to act on (schizoid personality disorder).

      I hate being told someone loves me partly because it is expected for you to return the sentiments (and love is sadly not an affection I feel so it would be a lie or at least an empty gesture) and partly because it makes me cringe and feel really anxious.

    3. Capulet


      Can definitely understand that!  I think, for me, it depends on the person. 

      Be gentle with yourself.  Here if you ever need to talk.

  4. More nightmares this semester, almost daily...

    1. Free2Fly


      Safe hugs :hug: if ok? 

  5. For those that need it, this is a very relaxing video with instrumental music set to shots of baby animals in nature. Perfect for your inner child.

    1. Free2Fly


      Hey :) , will check it out when I get a bit of time.

      how u? Hope ur doing ok :) 

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    2. wolfennights


      Oh, sorry, i posted a message saying hi but it felt too forward so i tried to delete it. I like your name tho.

    3. Rikusgrl


      Ohhhh hi 😊

    4. wolfennights


      hi, sorry, i didnt see this til now. But yeah, my message was me complimenting your username cus im a fan of Kingdom Hearts 2 and see Riku's struggle with the darkness as a metaphor for trauma.

  7. I want to be someones favorite...

  8. I just read your story. I just want to extend my sympathies and say that you are very strong. But I understand that the strength you showed enduring that was out of necessity. It never should have happened to you and I am proud of you for sharing it no matter how painful it is. It's ok to not be strong all the time. 

  9. I was born tired 

    1. Free2Fly


      Born tired? 

      Zzz....zzzz lol safe hugs :hug: 

      hope your doing okay?

    2. Kmkz


      sending some energy your way.

    3. 8888
  10. It's not your fault your friends left you. Its not your fault your brother became addicted to drugs or that your dog passed away. I know you hung out with those two girls because you so badly wanted to be them, to walk in their shoes, to be a real girl. Your worth isn't based on what she thinks of you. Her deciding to be friends with the bullies or let her brother hit you with a stick was not okay. It doesnt matter if they were only playing, those things hurt and she didn't seem to care. But trust me, you are a real girl deep down, and there is an amazing group of women friends waiting for you down the road.
  11. I feel like a lot of growing up is learning to take care of your inner child.

    1. Free2Fly


      I would think so too , :( I'm not so good at taking care of mine.

  12. The "true love's kiss" was not consensual. I don't buy into the "princess belongs to her prince" myth. I'll save myself, thanks.

  13. everything is going to be okay. don't think about all the roads you could have taken or roads that others are on. this road is my own.

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