wolfennights

Sitting with you.   if ok.

I need to learn this too.  from me too if wanted.

I'm sorry to hear this.  I hope it doesn't get to that point.

I'm sorry this is a possibility. Sending positive thoughts for many good things to you.  

Praying that you'll have a safe place to stay, reliable transportation and that you ace your finals!  

Source is Blood Tears Dust by Lacuna Coil. Video can be really triggering, but I personally find it cathartic.

Denial is sadly common. You were hurt and that is and never will be right. You were innocent and if you don't feel it anymore, it just means it was stolen from you.

You never deserved this, but you deserve to heal, wolfennights.

Sitting with you. to spare, if ok.

You are totally innocent. Wolfen. TOTALLY. There is literally NOTHING you could do to make someone be evil. There is nothing you could do or have done to make someone hurt you. That is THEIR choice, and it is THEIR fault alone. 

Denial is common...so is minimization. We can't say your trauma wasn't "that bad," because comparing trauma is inaccurate. Trauma is trauma is trauma. All that matters is how you feel, and all of your feelings are valid. 

@MeBeMary and @Iheartcupcakes thank you. I have since gotten back in touch with the vindication and retribution thanks to heavy metal. ❤️

I hope you laughed at their ignorance and stupidity.  That's what comments like that are chalked up to.  Please don't take them seriously.  Instead, you keep your head held up high, hang in there, and talk about whatever it is you need to talk about. You deserve to heal, and sometimes, the only way we can is to discuss it and give it the attention it warrants.   Sending hugs.

I'm sorry.  That was a really insensitive thing for someone to say.  

Safe hug  if ok?

im sorry it's like that for u.

I can just about cope with my parents (safe peoples who I live with) telling me occasionally that they love me, my brothers could probably get away with it if it was an emotional time. But anyone else? Heck no, I hate it! It makes me feel really awkward and put on the spot. My ex used to tell me he loved me (he was a bad man) and used to make me say it back. But my awkwardness and refusal to say I loved anyone stemmed from much earlier... I don’t feel many emotions and the ones I do feel are rarely strong enough to act on (schizoid personality disorder).

I hate being told someone loves me partly because it is expected for you to return the sentiments (and love is sadly not an affection I feel so it would be a lie or at least an empty gesture) and partly because it makes me cringe and feel really anxious.

Can definitely understand that!  I think, for me, it depends on the person. 

Be gentle with yourself.  Here if you ever need to talk.

Safe hugs if ok? 

Hey  , will check it out when I get a bit of time.

how u? Hope ur doing ok  

Oh, sorry, i posted a message saying hi but it felt too forward so i tried to delete it. I like your name tho.

Ohhhh hi 😊

hi, sorry, i didnt see this til now. But yeah, my message was me complimenting your username cus im a fan of Kingdom Hearts 2 and see Riku's struggle with the darkness as a metaphor for trauma.

Born tired? 

Zzz....zzzz lol safe hugs  

hope your doing okay?

sending some energy your way.