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  1. I'll be taking a slight break from here, only logging in twice a week. I've become a bit obsessive over and overly attached to this place. Love ya'll.

    1. Finchy


      Do what you need to, wolfennights. ❤️ It's totally ok. Take gentle care, ok? 

    2. Doll6


      Please look after yourself @wolfennights

  2. (Not quite sarcastic but definitely condescending) you're really bad at this.
  3. You truly do absolutely amazing work on here. I always look forward to reading your responses to posts.

  4. I've been feeling like a wild animal lately, a stray cat with a compass. Thank you for your kind words. In my 20s my favorite word was autonomy. Now in my 30s my favorite word is agency. 

  5. I haven't been able to read or respond to your posts lately but I just wanted to let you know I love you and care about you. We don't talk much but I do think about you from time to time. I hope you have good people in your life with good food and good shelter. 💚💜💙

    1. Reyzl


      Thanks for your message@wolfennights , that's really sweet. I do have those things, I'm very fortunate really. Hope you are doing okay :)


  6. ❤️ (short on words but thank you for the times you responded to my posts)

    1. AngelasAshes


      💗 absolutely

  7. Hi, i saw that you were a mother. Would i be able to ask you for some advice?

    1. TatteredSunflower


      Sure! Though I will be honest - I'm a lil bit tipsy at the moment. So if you'd rather I wait til tomorrow to respond, please just tell me that. No offense taken. 

  8. Okay Home Alone is a hella more frightening as an adult woman.

    1. Friendlylife
    2. Finchy


      I haven't watched it since I was a kid, so I don't even remember it much. I'll take your word for it though! :lol: 

  9. Hi, how are you doing today? Did you have a good Thanksgiving?

  10. wolfennights


    I'm proud of you for showering and reaching out for help here. There will be good days and bad days. Just know that whatever you need to feel is acceptable here. And you don't need to go into the details all at once. I'd love to be a part of your support system too, but i cant promise i'll always know what to say.
  11. The more I see you post the more I'm reminded of Chanel Miller and want you to meet her. :) Her memoir has been a major source of healing for me, as has been this community. The publicity and news articles make it feel so emotionless and impersonal. I couldn't pay attention to the news articles, especially since her assailant is from my hometown (technically, I've lived here ten years which is the longest I've lived in one state).

    1. Iheartcupcakes


      @wolfennights That is quite a compliment. Thank you so much. I want to read her memoir when I can. 

  12. I used to wonder that. Then I let myself think about it. I talked to friends. I asked what lies I learned from it. I changed the ending, reassured myself I deserved to be saved. I imagined kid me being saved by my modern day heros, them wiping my face clean and hugging me and taking me to their parents' house for food. I painted and let myself think of the painting. It's still there. I still cry or get angry. IDK if I've ever gone a day without thinking about it. But it's different now. And I think that's enough for now.
  13. What kinda name for a tv show is "naked and afraid"???

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    2. Iheartcupcakes


      I know. I don't like it. I will never watch it. 

    3. Field8
    4. KendraPal33


      Such a poor choice of words for a show title, but I guess that type of stuff sells. 🤷‍♀️

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