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  1. I could really use your help in "coming back" from a long time in the court. I suspect I can do it, but it is hard and challenigng.

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    2. mini.finch


      Sitting with you, Hoping. ❤️ *sends you support and safe hugs if you'd like*

    3. Poppy_


      Sending loads of support, my friend! :throb:

    4. Hoping8


      Thank you. I am moving really slow, and feel really... injured, I guess? I hope it will start to shift soon.

  2. Of all things, my Counselor came out with a random beef, and threw my advocates under the bus too. I want to keep pushing forward with criminal and civil cases, but every step seems to bring ugly obstacles. I am getting worn out.

  3. Hi Fiona, and welcome--though sorry to hear that you "fit" on a site like this. You'll find a very warm, welcoming and supportive community here--it has been a godsend for me.
  4. Hi @Maya20 I was very scared and nervous when I first joined this site too. It will pass, and you will find acceptance and support here. Welcome.
  5. I think I just quit my job.  

    1. Iheartcupcakes


      How are you feeling?

    2. Hoping8


      Literally sick.  Like chills and vomiting.  That’s partly the r Aston for the job thing—I have been having a hard time staying healthy with the court stuff, and my principal is a bully.  She was saying hateful stuff to me and I just took the week off.  Wrote to HR.  I’ve reported to them repeatedly already.  Idk, not what i want, but i am tired of being abused at work.

  6. I am thankful for all of you.  Lightness and optimism coming your way!

  7. Hi Hoping8, How was last night for you? I'm hoping you got at least a little sleep. I know it's really difficult to fall asleep when the anxiety is running high... It's also tough to function when you're sleep-deprived... Just wanted you to know I'm still thinking of you and sending you fierce-grace energy :) And also, when you get a chance, try sending me a PM again. I did receive 2 other messages within the past couple days from other people, so if you can't send one then I should probably let someone know so they can fix it.... I hope today is good for you. Take care.


    1. Hoping8


      Seems like a Hs time it let the PM go through!

  8. Hi Matt, and welcome. I know what you mean about happy and shaking—it is a big step to start intentionally seeking out places and people who will support and “see” you. It’s powerful and new, and exciting. Congrats on reaching out for what you need!
  9. Hoping8

    Blind stupid persistence.

    Aw, @Gordy, I am all for you doing and saying whatever serves you, but please know that I hope you’ll get to a place that you don’t need to call what you are doing blind or stupid. Maybe brave and determined? Resolved and courageous??? F-you and bad**s???
  10. Hoping8


    Hang in there, @Gordy. Lots of birds of that feather here, I think. Sorry you are hurting, but glad that you are sharing.
  11. Hi @sarahoknow and welcome. You will find a lot of acceptance and support here. I am glad you found this site.
  12. Hi @WaterfallSoul I am glad you found this site—it is full of support and kindness, and lots of people who can relate to parts of your experience, even though only you know your whole unique experience. You are welcome here!
  13. Hi @Cam♂, and welcome. I’m glad you found this site and I look forward to getting to know you better.
  14. Hi @HurtingMommy. I’m sending you healing thoughts and empathy.
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