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    Healing is unconditional self love

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    Among the Infamous Vikings
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    History, Society, Writing, Reading, Movies, Music, Cardio, Walks, Crafting, Food ;)

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  1. This is horrible. I have a wicked stepmonster of my own, but fortunately I lost contact with her as I disowned my dad when I was 13... Her asking for a divorce minutes after getting the house signed over... very very wicked and I am sure there has be some legal safety against such plotting. Also, that document doesn't sound legal either. It should be a whole process... Anyhow, I am sorry she's so wicked and I am sorry you're living situation is shaky now. What a b*tch.
  2. Pretty productive day. I had a work interview for the summer and de-cluttered my room for hours. 

    I will work a 2 weeks trying out the job in June. It's at an hotel abroad. 

    1. Finchy


      Congrats on such a productive day, Wanna! Make sure to rest, too! :) 

  3. Hello and welcome here, I am Wanna Oh, how nice that the word is getting around! This is a very good place to get some extra support, as this site is quite active and you have many forums to choose from. What you are describing about connections and support is pretty much how I describe this site. A place to find contact with fellow survivors and sense a community. We exchange healthy coping tactics, experiences and support. All within the pace you'd prefer, you share what you feel comfortable to. Wishing you well too! You can contact me or any staff by choice through PM with quest
  4. Hello and welcome here, I am Wanna Good thing you came back here, it indeed sounds like you could use all support you can get. I am proud of you for seeking help so soon after what happened, and standing up for yourself by using your voice. I hope you are safe from that bf and have people who can look after you. You decide your own pace here, when you want to share and what. Just know we are here for you, and we believe you. I am sorry about all of your traumas, that should never have happened. But this community is here to unload your burden, helping you to find healthy coping.
  5. Welcome on board here! I am Wanna Not all survivors know what happened right after, especially since society provides a rather stereotypical images of how RA/SA happens. When someone we trusted hurts us that deep, we'd rather not believe it. It's a common coping mechanism, often ending up in us blaming ourselves. The thing with consent is, that it doesn't leave question marks. Consent doesn't leave us traumatized. It can take years and even another person telling us, before we realize that what occurred was out of our control. This is a safe place for you to heal together wit
  6. Hello JustDuckey and welcome on board, I go by Wanna I am glad you joined, every survivor should get the opportunity to find a community. After Silence is a safe place to connect with fellow survivors, venting and sharing (at the pace you choose) and overall receiving support. Every story is unique, but we tend to relate to each other here. I hope you will feel less alone with your trauma here and get a boost in your healing. Aside from trauma, you can talk about day to day life too. You might have noticed that we have plenty of different forums, with different themes. Feel
  7. Hello and welcome here, I am Wanna This is a safe place, where you take things at your own pace. Opening up can be very hard, I know. Sharing can bring up certain reactions as we open a box of suppressed emotions. However, as the storm calms, you will feel better in the long run. It is important that you know, that you are far from alone. You have a community to follow you through this, and eventually the good days will outnumber the bad days. You are a survivor. It's about finding healthy coping and a sustainable support system. To find your balances again so you can lead a fulfil
  8. sick today. I asked mum to go to the store with my card and buy a cane of soup. She's making it from scratch... and with toasts! 😢

    1. Finchy


      I hope you feel better! I'm sick, too. Soup from scratch sounds so good right now! And toast! Yum!

  9. I got my grade back for one of my classes. I passed everything except one paper. My teacher has left me with instructions and I'll admit a new version in December. I did get the highest grade for some of my other assignments. 

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    2. Finchy


      Wow, well, that is one really cool thing about Sweden. It's definitely not like that here in the US! If you fail, you fail.

    3. WannaMoveOn


      @Finchy I believe universities should offer re-exams. I know Sweden is very generous on that point. 

    4. sarahbella


      I like how Sweden does it.  Higher education can be expensive too.  

      It may depend on the source of training, i.e. a cosmetology or massage exam can be taken again.  

      Yay Sweden (my ancestor's are Dutch and Norwegian :)

  10. Hello zipzap and welcome to After Silence I am Wanna. Take your time to get to know this site. After Silence is a safe place for survivors to connect, share and exchange support. You decide what you'd like to post, no pressure whatsoever. Aside from trauma related topics, you can also talk about life in general, how you are and what is on your mind. I am happy you came here, as I believe every survivor should be offered a community to unload. Please know, we fully believe you. You have nothing to be ashamed about, and you are never alone Check your PM inbox for some information!
  11. Hello Sara and welcome on board! I am Wanna I am so happy you are now comfortable enough to start posting! No expectations or pressure whatsoever. You come and go as you please. If you would have any questions about this site, feel free to PM me or any staff member of choice. This is a safe place for you to share in the pace you'd like, connect with fellow survivors and exchange experiences. Please know we fully believe you, and that this community has your back at all times. Take good care now, W
  12. Hello and welcome on board! I am Wanna by the way It was a good idea of your therapist, and a brave decision of you to take this step. Joining a community is a milestone in healing, and I am so happy you came to ours! After Silence carries a wide diversity of survivors, but we tend to relate to each other one way or another. Take your time to get to know this place. No pressure, no expectations. Please know that we believe you. You have nothing to be ashamed about. It is very normal to be confused, and we often fear to exaggerate. Just the feeling, that something was off, is a red
  13. Hello ButterflyPrincess! I am Wanna I am so very sorry. I hope you are safe. You are brave for reaching out, and it was the right thing to do. Nobody should be going through this alone. I understand if it's hard to think right now, and that you probably are battling all kinds of emotions. Just know we welcome you as you are. We believe you, and this community is here for you! Take gentle care, okay? Let us staff know if we can be at any help. I am just one PM away. /W
  14. Hello Blossom! I am Wanna You take your time here, okay? You have no obligations here, just do what feels best for you. After Silence is a safe place to vent, share and connect with fellow survivors the way you'd like. Aside from trauma and trauma-related topics, you can talk about day-to-day life here too. I am glad you've decided to join, because every survivor should be offered a community. Please know we believe you, it was not your fault Stay safe, W
  15. I only managed to study for a few hours today, ugh. I am so tired tho I could fall asleep right now, but it's not even 7 pm so bad idea. 

    Also, I passed my exam from last week. Yay! 

    1. Finchy


      Congrats on passing your exam!!! :) And don't worry about how long you've studied. To me, a few hours sounds like a long time! Just rest when your body tells you to, ok? Best wishes. ❤️ 

    2. WannaMoveOn


      @Finchy I went to the store for some snacks and am now having a Desperate Housewife marathon. 

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