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WannaMoveOn

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  1. Just cancelled nurse school. I am going to study history and academic writing come September and then we'll see what's next.  

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    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @leaff Anything really, I might apply to becoming a history teacher on HS level. 

    3. leaff

      leaff

      Very admirable work, I’m sure you’ll be great at it! 

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      I am grateful for your replies. I am testing the waters and then we'll see. 

  2. I'm taking the bus tomorrow morning as a treat, starting 6.45. Ugh, only 3 shifts left. Then I'll go on vacay and prepare for university. I can't believe I've worked all summer. 

  3. Hello and welcome from me as well! I am Wanna I am truly sorry about unfortunate circumstances holding you back. I have been on anti-depressants myself and am having another round of therapy in the fall. After Silence is here for whenever you're ready. You pick the pace and the time, no pressure. Starting to share and participate is a big step, but it can make healing come by easier. I hope things will get better for you soon. Sending you sunshine /W
  4. Hello and welcome, I am Wanna You sound like a creative person with a lot of energy, and I am excited to have you here! You can post pics of your furbabies any time. I have a lot of respect for furparents. My best friend has a 9 month old Australian terrier, and I adore how she invests time and energy to raise that dog right. Anyhow, this is a safe place for any survivor to share (as much as they want), connect with fellow survivors and exchange advice. You can talk openly about your "alphabets", about therapy and anything going on in your life. We have a forum called Healing Throu
  5. Happy you´re here too! Take gentle care, we are here whenever you want us/need us to be
  6. Switching up from Elsa to Rapuzel? I am intrigued! Is this because there is this fanfic about Rapunzel being the secretly related to Elsa? 

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    2. 8888

      8888

      I like it!  It's cool your profile cover photo is purple as well.

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thanks @8888!! I'm glad you noticed! 😄❤️ 

    4. 8888
  7. Hello Rose-T and welcome on board! I am Wanna by the way, nice to meet you Don´t worry, being nervous is normal, you are after all making a big decision for yourself. After Silence is a warm community with kind members, and we look out for each other here. You can talk about past, present and the future. About the good and bad, and anything inbetween. This platform provides a safe place to have a sense of extra support, whenever it suits you. No pressure on answering fast, or signing in frequently. You pick your own pace. I am sincerely sorry for what you´ve experienced and w
  8. Went blueberry picking with my friend and her furbaby today. Furbaby decided blueberries are nice and helped herself. I remembered today that me and this friend were supposed to go mini-golfing yesterday. We´re going tomorrow instead, my treat. She said she´ll be using the fact that I ditched her for a guy against me. I told her I will use her teasing me in the sixth grade against her. She let me off the hook. 😄

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Lol sounds like fun, Wanna! You have awesome friends. :) And your friend has a cute furbaby, eating blueberries! ❤️ 

    2. 8888

      8888

      Nice!  It sounds like you have a decent support system.  

  9. Oboy oboy. I was adulting so much today! Pay day, so I transferred money into my savings account and payed my bills. I wrote my insurance company, did my work out, organized my clean laundry, showered... And I also went to see my friend after work before all of this. Busy day. 

    And tomorrow, I will get up at 4.45 am again... Vacation could note come sooner. 

  10. Having a day off. I deep cleaned my room, the bath, am doing some laundry and have cancelled a subscription. I will have lunch soon and then do a gentle work out. Then I did what I had on today´s to do list. Really nice when life is just that simple. 

    1. sk8er

      sk8er

      ohh yes, those are the best things to do to relax. it feels so nice to have everything clean and In order haha.

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @sk8er yup, it´s the circle of life. Organize so you can have your chaos. 

  11. I watched a reel today with a quote going something like "Healing is not about becoming the best version of yourself, but letting the worst version of yourself be loved". That really stuck with me. 

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Aww wow. That's a really good quote!!

  12. Just a heads up, if my spelling seems off. I use a new browser, the Brave browser, which is great for privacy. However, it was created merely one year ago and I had to install an English spelling correction seperatly. For some reason, it works on every site but AS. When I do welcomings, I run my writing through another site and then copy paste it here. Just so you guys know ^^

     

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      It's ok, Wanna! Your spelling is totally fine! :) 

  13. Hello and welcome here, I am Wanna Getting memories back later on, may it be weeks, months, or years, is very common. Our brain has a way to suppress specific memories, only to unleash them when we might not expect it. I am deeply and sincerely sorry for your pain and trauma. These were sick people, and none of it was your fault. We believe you, and you have nothing to be ashamed about. I am happy you´re already feeling the sense of a community here. Reaching out is a coragious thing to do. It is so important for our healing, to feel heard and understood. Feel free to PM me w
  14. Got accepted into my first choices. 

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    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Thanks you guys! I wrote my HS history teacher. He asked me to keep him updated. I have contact with many of my HS teachers, they´r like mentors to me now. Two know I am a survivor, and have been interested to hear how I am doing. 

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      That’s awesome Wanna!! 

    4. 8888

      8888

      Congratulations!

  15. I am sorry you are in a bad place. Stay safe, ok?
  16. Just booked myself a short vacation on the other end of the country! I have never given myself this, I am excited. 

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      That sounds awesome!! :) 

    2. snmls

      snmls

      I'm excited for you!

  17. Life lesson: Do that small extra thing for yourself. Get a pillow when you sit in the couch, chew some nice gum, buy that soda you´ve been craving or listen to that song that boosts you. I have been paying attention to those small things a lot lately and it has helped me. You know, those small details that makes your day more fun. 

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      :hug: ❤️ So true!

  18. My legs are rubber. Rough day at work. I just payed my last outstanding bill from last month and shall now cool down, with a raspberry ice pop. It´s so hot and humid right now. 

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      It's so hot and humid here, too. It's miserable. I hope that ice pop helped you out! And I hope that work improves for you. *huggles*

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finchI had two ice pops! One raspberry, one lemon. Huggles! 

  19. Hello and welcome! I am Wanna, nice to meet you This is a great place for what you are aspiring for. After Silence carries a wide diversity of survivors, and our members are very kind. We tend to relate to each other here, and you get the chance to feel less alone. You seem to be taking your healing as high priority, which I second. I have done some therapy myself. The combination of professional help and a community is a good composition in a support system. We meet you wherever you might be at on your journey. You can throw me a PM any time! All best, W
  20. Hello @anakim and welcome here! I am Wanna btw No worries, you decide how often you´d like to sign in. We are here for you any time, so you can feel the sense of a community unconditionally. This is a safe place where you can share experiences, thoughts and feelings. You can vent, discuss and connect with fellow survivors. I hope you are safe and well, and despite trauma processing get to enjoy the summer a bit. Yes, the reasons that brought us here are indeed unfortunate. But we are stronger together, and that is beautiful Wishing you the very best, W
  21. If I have been a little distant, it´s because I worked a lot lately. I even stayed at a friend´s last night because my shift ended at 9.30 pm and my next was 06.45 am. So I slept over since she lives close. I will have some more time off soon, but my plate´s full right now 

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Make sure to rest when you can, Wanna. ❤️ It sounds like you're super busy!

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

       @mini.finch Yes, I nap a lot these days. Yesterday I napped so hard, as I woke up believing it was the next day. 

  22. Aaaah! I have two days off in a row for the first time in a while. I had a Big Bang theory type of morning. I gently exercised, deep cleaned my room, did some laundry and organized my mail. Pay day tomorrow (since Friday is a national holiday), so I went extra with my pizza ordering. I shall be elite lazy for the rest of the day! I even forced myself not to do all my chores in a row, but to watch one episode of something inbetween. :supacool:

  23. Hello there, wishing you welcome as well! I am Wanna I myself have found great comfort in this forum. You can talk about pretty much anything and share in the amount you feel comfortable with. Everyone here has a different story, but we tend to relate to another here. We are here for you, wherever you are at healing right now and will be for ups and downs. All best, W
  24. Boy, got up at 5 so I could be at work by 7. Worked 7-4 with only a 30 minute break. It's a messy bun, scented candle and blanket kind of night. Will work again tomorrow, so recharging all night now! 

  25. Oh, no problems at all! Always happy to help a newbie out
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