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Stephenjames

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About Stephenjames

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    Formerly 'Rapha'

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  • Gender
    Male
  • Location
    England
  • Interests
    Royal Air Force

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  • MembershipType
    Survivor

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  • Website URL
    www.rapha.cc

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  1. I'm finding it difficult to process all the information from all the s*xual ab*se, wish people would leave me alone...

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      I'm sorry for all this difficulty. Supporting you. Safe hugs, if ok. :console:

    2. Stephenjames

      Stephenjames

      Many thanks for your kind words of support @MeBeMary

      Safe hugs to you too, if ok 

  2. They ripped all my hair out to make me too ugly to ever have a girlfriend..

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    2. Stephenjames

      Stephenjames

      Thank you @WannaMoveOn for your kind words of support. I guess having hair on a mans head isn't the be-all-and end-all in a healthy relationship. I was only 18, they did it to humiliate me. 

      My paranoid and mentally ill Sister was threatening to commit suicide if I ever got a girlfriend. My Policeman Father and his drinking friends set me up. I find it all very distressing to say the least. 

      I wish you well with your boyfriend. Many thanks once again. 

      Stephenjames. 

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Ripping hair our counts as physical abuse in my country. 

      If this affected your hair growth, I understand it must be a painful reminder, but you can meet a loving person no matter that. When we truly love someone, we see the beauty in the person inside and out. 

      How nice of you to wish me luck! :) Btw, wrote wrong, he is in his upper 20´s 😄 Almost 30. 

    4. Stephenjames

      Stephenjames

      Hi @WannaMoveOn

      I didn't realise what they were doing counted as physical abuse at the time. It was done by the Police, so I didn't really have anyone to ask for help. When I went to the health service, they laughed in my face. 

      I will have to try and seek legal advise, maybe there is something that can be done about these corrupt Policeman. 

      They turned me into a basket case when I was 16-18. I really did want to get married and have children but I fear I am over the hill these days. I find it very upsetting to think of what they did to me for fun. 

      I wish you and your boyfriend a very happy future together. 

      Many thanks for all your kind help! 

      Stephenjames. 

  3. I was only 18 years old! I had my entire life ahead of me! :( 

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    2. Stephenjames

      Stephenjames

      Very kind of you @WannaMoveOn most appreciated. 

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Please reach out to this community whenever. I hope you´re safe. 

    4. Stephenjames

      Stephenjames

      Many thanks @WannaMoveOn very kind of you. 

  4. Hi @AKB Many thanks for the heads up regarding the chat room, shame that it no longer exists. I am curious, what kind of chat room software is available? Sorry if I was jumping the gun and speaking out of turn but the old chat room really was a great source of support. Many thanks for your kind words of support. Wishing you well, Steve.
  5. I might be speaking out of place or being a little inappropriate but I really wish it were possible to bring back the old chat room. The one we had recently didn't really seem to make sense or really work which was a shame. I for one made so many good friends and met lots of new people and found such support in the old chat room when I first came here back in 2013. It's such a shame the way things worked out for the old style chat room which I know is no ones fault. Really wish it were possible through support, feedback and donations that maybe some day we could have a working chat
  6. They are trying to make me believe that s*xual ab*se is legal! ☹️

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    2. Stephenjames

      Stephenjames

      Many thanks @Field8 & @mini.finch for your kind words in reply to status update. They set up all their s*xual ab*se scams to make sure that I never have children which makes it even worse. 

    3. Field8

      Field8

      I understand. Not having children was taken away from me but in a different way. Sitting with you dear friend.

    4. Stephenjames

      Stephenjames

      Hi @Field8 thank you for taking the time to reply to my status update. Sorry to hear of your pain and upset of having the chance to have children taken away from you, I know how hard and upsetting that is. Wishing you well, take care. 

  7. That fat dirty old man deprived me of my 999 phone call..

  8. I'm sick of the abuse...

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      So sorry you are hurting and still being hurt. It is not deserved and I hope very much you find you freedom and happiness from such pain eventually.

      Keep fighting and keep remembering you deserve better.

      Sitting with you, Stephenjames. :hug: 

    2. Stephenjames

      Stephenjames

      Thank you @MeBeMary for your kind words of support and understanding, very kind of you. 

      I too hope that I can fight for freedom from this terrible abuse.

      Once again thanks for your support, much appreciated.  

  9. I too are having trouble editing my signature, its says the signature spans too many lines. Can anyone help me?
  10. A fat dirty old man abused me...

  11. They tortured me...

     

     

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Something you never deserved. Sitting with you, if OK. :hug:if OK.

    2. Stephenjames

      Stephenjames

      Thank you @MeBeMary very kind of you. Thanks also for the safe hug. 

  12. You wouldn't treat an animal the way I was treated..

  13. They were behind the walls...

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      :hug:  Sitting with you.

    2. Stephenjames

      Stephenjames

      Thank you @MeBeMary appreciated.

  14. Subjected to an abuse ritual by my sister (and her friends)..... incest?

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