MeBeMary

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  • Birthday 04/19/1968

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  1. Hi Disrupted Amazon, Welcome to AS. I am sorry you find a reason to be here, but am happy you found our community. Finding our way is not the easiest thing, I know, but at least we don't have to do it alone. You will find tons of support. Look around and know there is no judgement or pressure. I wish you the best as you travel along this path of healing. Mary
  2. Hi Kkhateera, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma you endured. Nobody had that right to hurt you. Good news is that you have found a very supportive site, the members are understanding and kind. We all kinda start like that...unsure, but that is ok. Take your time and look around. I wish you the best on this journey of healing. Mary
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    Hi Katie, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma that you experienced, but you will find tons of support here. Feeling alone is one of the worst feelings we can have, but we have all found a bound of understanding and try to heal together. I wish you the very best as you walk your healing journey with us. Mary
  4. Hi panket, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma you have endured, but you have found a very supportive site. Good news is you are NOT ulta-pathetic subhuman creature. You have been unjustifiable hurt and perhaps a bit confused...but also very brave. Reaching out does take great courage. Take your time to look around. It will become easier once your realize you are not alone. We are here for you. I wish you the very best on your healing journey. Mary
  5. Hi Bella, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma you have experienced, but you have found a very supportive site. The members are kind and understanding. I understand how something like this can be confusing, but with time and support, perhaps you will find your way thru. We are here for you on this journey of healing. Mary
  6. Hi Debbie, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry what brings you here, but you have found a very supportive site. The things you don't want--to be alone, to be judged, to feel pressured--are nowhere here on this site. We accept you as you are, no conditions. Take your time and look around. We are here for you as you journey down your healing path. Mary
  7. Hi Miss L, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma that you have experienced. Nobody has the right to hurt another this way. I know the effects can be great and hurt a great deal. You are not alone. Take your time among the boards, and when and if you are comfortable to speak, we will be here for you. There is no pressure or judgment here. I do wish you the best on this journey of healing. Mary
  8. Hi oweeoo, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma you experienced, but you have found a very supportive site. The members here are kind and understanding. Reaching out is a bigs step. I wish you the best on your journey of healing. Mary
  9. Hi in_time, Welcome to AS. I am sorry for what happened to you 6 years ago. It was wrong for anyone to hurt you. You have found a supportive site. Best wishes on your healing journey. Mary
  10. Hi Queen P, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma that you have experienced. Nobody has the right to hurt another. You have found a very supportive site with many understanding and kind members. It takes great courage to reach out. I do wish you the very best on your healing journey. Mary
  11. Hi Seagoat, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for what you experienced. It is hard to process something like this at 5 years old, it may be the reason you did not feel scared at the time. Your adult mind may be conflicted, now that you have children of your own. You have found a very supportive site to help you thru some of the issues you have been facing. I do wish yo well on this journey. Mary
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    Hi Jade, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma you have experienced. Nobody has the right to hurt another this way. You have found a very supportive site with many kind and understanding members. It's a big step to reach out. I wish you many more forward steps on this journey of healing. Mary
  13. Hi Koala. Welcome to AS. I am sorry for what happened to you 7 years ago, but you have found a very supportive site. I'm sorry you only had one person believe you. As for the others, not only were they wrong, they were cruel to speak this way to you. I do commend you for the accomplishment of being able to stop drinking AND realizing it was not your fault. These are huge, considering self-blame is way to common and unjustified with survivors. When you are ready to talk, you will find very understanding and supportive members to listen. I wish you the best on your healing journey. Mary
  14. Hi Knitman, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma that you have endured, but you have found a very supportive site. It is very sad to know that someone that is supposed to love and protect you did not fulfill their role as a parent. I do like that you understand the reason for abuse stems from the abuser, and not yourself. There is never a justifiable reason for anyone to hurt another this way. I am happy that you have support in rl and now here at AS. It really is a positive that have people who understand. I do wish you the very best as you continue this healing journey. Mary
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    I forever, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry that you have experienced something bad that made you seek us out, but you have found a very supportive site. It takes courage to reach out to others. You will find a lot of understanding here, and even tho two stories are never exactly alike, we are bonded by the wrong that has been done to us. You are not alone. I wish you the best as you walk this path of healing. Mary