MeBeMary

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  • Birthday 04/19/1968

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  1. Hi Verdif, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for what your ex put you thru. It was wrong and HE was wrong. Unfortunately some people truly don't understand. They should be saying that can't happen, but shouldn't happen, and it shouldn't. You do not forgo consent because you are in a relationship. Being in a relationship means he should respect that even more. I'm sorry this happened to you and wish that others could understand. We do. You are supported here and you are believed. I do wish you the best as you begin your healing journey. Mary
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    Hi Aquarlefty, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the traumas you have gone thru, but this is a very supportive site. The members you will find understanding and kind. Perhaps the last time reaching out was not the right time for you. You have found us now, and we will be here for you. It's not an easy journey, but healing is possible. I wish you the best on your journey. Mary
  3. Hi Heavenly, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for what you experienced 15 years ago. It wasn't right and it wasn't fair. I understand not dealing with emotions or struggles, even tho they took center stage in my life, as hard as I tried to deny it. For me it was 30 years. But Patricia is right, it is never too late. I wish you the very best as you begin your healing journey. Mary
  4. Hi Graice, Welcome back to the site. Glad you remembered that we are here and you know the support and understanding you will find. You are very courageous yourself. I wish you well as you continue your healing journey. Mary
  5. Hi Coffee Alicorn, Welcome to AS. I am sorry you have experienced something awful to find yourself here, but you will find tons of support. Your intro is perfect for the Welcome forum, you can speak more freely in the private forums. I like your mantra of the past not defining you, as it shouldn't. I wish you the best as you travel down your healing path. Mary
  6. Hi Queenie, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry you have reason to be here, but you have found a very supportive site. You have found a place were you can talk, free of pressure and judgment. We all understand from the place you are coming from. I wish you the very best on this healing journey. Mary
  7. Hi Summer, Welcome to AS. I am so sorry for the trauma you have experienced, but everything you say about your impressions of this site is accurate. The members her are supportive and kind and nobody that hasn't experienced what we have truly understands. I am always happy to hear that we have been recommended by someone to new members. Take and give to the site what you are comfortable with and know you are not alone. I wish you the best on your healing journey. Mary
  8. Hi oceonwaves, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma you have experienced, but you have found a very supportive site. You will find the members here supportive and understanding. I am so sorry that you are struggling right now, but am glad you were brave enough to reach out. Nobody should be alone with such pain. I wish you the best as you travel down your healing path. Mary
  9. Hi sunshinee, Welcome to AS. I am so sorry you experienced a trauma so recently. I am sure you are dealing with so many new emotions, but do know that you did not deserve to be hurt. You will find tons of support here on the site. It's a big step to reach out. I wish you many more healing steps on this journey. Mary
  10. Hi Vermont, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma you suffered, but AS is a very supportive site. The members are truly kind and understanding. It's ok to take your time, it's how many of us come to the site. Learning and feeling not as alone is important step, just as sharing, when you are ready. There is no timeline, so just go at your own pace. There will never be pressure to go faster than you are ready. I wish you the very best as you walk your path of healing. Mary
  11. Hi Emmah, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry you have experienced a trauma, but you have found a very supportive site. The members here at AS are truly understanding and kind. The first step to reach out is always the biggest, and I am happy that you have done so. I do wish you the very best on many more steps forward on this healing journey. Mary
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    Hi Darby, Welcome to AS. I am very sorry that you have experienced trauma, but this is a very supportive site. You will find the members here truly understanding and kind. It takes courage to reach out, and I am glad that you have. I wish you the best as you journey down your healing path. Mary
  13. Hi Rachael, Welcome to AS. I am sorry you have experienced trauma, but you will find this a very supportive site. The members here truly are kind and understanding. It took me a long time to admit the wrong that was done to me, but AS has given me a voice. I never knew what a difference that would make. I also agree with Struggling, as I have learned a great deal from this site. Take a look around the site and I am sure you will see what we mean. I want to wish you the best on your healing journey. Mary
  14. Happy Birthday, My Friend. :happybday2::happybday2::happybday2:

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  16. fallenstar

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    Happy birthday! Hope it is lovely :party2::birthday:

  17. Bluesclues

    Bluesclues

    You're so welcome! I hope it's amazing! And filled with a lot of CHOCOLATEEEE 

  18. patriciag
  • Your welcome. You are at 10. You are now able to enter.