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WannaMoveOn

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  1. Did you design that profile pic yourself Finchy?

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Kind of! :) I didn't draw Elsa, but I took that art of her, and then the background is the sapphic asexual pride flag. I essentially combined them. So I designed it in a way!

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      You are so creative, Finchy, keep it up! 

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thanks, Wanna!! ❤️

       

  2. I've quit my job at the hotel today and will leave for a vacay in Finland next week. From there, I'll be heading home and taking the summer off. Will send you pictures later! 

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Have fun with your vacation, Wanna! :) 

    2. Doll6

      Doll6

      Enjoy your time off Wanna

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Thanks guys! I found an affordable hostel, close to the attractions I'd like to visit. 

  3. I'm so drained. I'm longing for the weekend. I donated Blood yesterday and slept unwell, and I'm having a full day scheduled, evening, too. Support appreciated. 

    1. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @Finchy B+, I couldn't even get an A on my blood type 😄 

      Yup, I will work hard today, go to church tonight to volunteer at the kid's fair and then take a sloooow weekend off. 

    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      :lol: Good one, Wanna! Haha. B+...that does sound like a rare blood type!

      Good luck with the volunteering. :) Then rest up!

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @Finchy Scented candle, streaming service, snacks and fav blankie as we speak! B+ is more common in Asia and Middle East they say. Which is ironic since I only have central European roots. B+ can give and receive AB and B- so that's good. Disadvantage is that B+ is the highest blood type risk for diabetes, 35%. I'm not stressed out though, I still have those 65% to work on. 

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  4. Passed my exam from last month, I have enough academic credit to continue next semester! I need this final to graduate, but if I would fail, I have basically all semester to fix that. Studying hard though, I am so happy and SO ready for summer :) 

    1. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @Doll6 It's a challenge, but honestly switching majors from biology to history was probably the best decision I've ever made in life so far. I always loved history, even as a kid, so I can't honestly remember why I aimed for biology. 

    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Congrats, Wanna! You can do this!! ❤️ You're doing so well. ❤️ 

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      I’m glad you’re going with your interest area @WannaMoveOn

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  5. Hello @Purple_Hair417 and welcome to our community! I am Wanna Your T gave a wise suggestion, connecting with fellow survivors helps your healing a lot. We tend to relate to each other here, and you can use this platform to both discuss trauma, coping or just life in general. We are here for the good, bad and the in-betweens. I am sincerely sorry about your trauma and how it has affected your life. We believe you, it wasn't your fault. You have nothing to be ashamed about. Take your time to get to know our community. If you'd have any questions or need some venting/chatting, us sta
  6. Spring is here, and so are my pollen allergies! 

    I have felt sick these past days, drained and tired. I got anxious my anxiety syndrome was flourishing up again but turns out it's just this intense phase of spring in North Sweden when nature bursts into full bloom within 2 weeks. Would be nicer if I wasn't so clogged because of the pollen, but at least it's not my mental health. 

  7. Well hello there Jess, I am Wanna Welcome to AS! I am sincerely sorry about your trauma and all that comes with. Please know we believe you, and that it wasn't your fault in any way. After Silence offers a community where you can connect with fellow survivors, exchange advice/coping strategies, and share what you'd feel comfortable to. I hope this platform will ease your life a bit and extend your support system. We have a Healing Through Creativity forum you may want to check out. We have many fur parents here, so posts with cute fur babies may occur! I am glad you have dog
  8. Hello Jess! I am Wanna, welcome to AS! After Silence is a safe place by survivors for survivors. When getting flashbacks, body memories and struggling to cope, we tend to feel alone. Our community offers a chance to relate, exchange support and share our trauma. Of course, you decide what you'd like to tell. Please know, we believe you and it wasn't your fault. You are not alone! We discuss relationships after experiencing r/SA here as well, how to trust again and setting boundaries. You can check out our forum Relationships and Sexuality for that. If you'd need s
  9. That's a good tip, thank you! I am not American and am in a totally different field, but I have sensed that the military system provides poor protection for these types of violations. I have heard about similar cases... Please let me know if I can help ☀️
  10. Hey you, welcome here! I am Wanna, btw. I didn't know about the term MST, you really learn something new every day. Even if these people faced charges, closure and healing can be hard to achieve. Our past tends to sneak upon us at times, and knowing how to cope healthily can be tricky for sure. It sounds like you've spent a lot of time researching your trauma and getting help. Good on you for that! You're a fighter. I hope this platform will ease your burden a bit, make you feel supported and understood. Everyone carries a unique story, but we tend to relate to another here.
  11. Hello and welcome here! I am Wanna, and I am glad too you decided to join After Silence offers a chance to connect with fellow survivors, exchange advice, sharing (what you'd like to) and more. Everyone carries a unique story, but we tend to relate to one another here. I hope this site will contribute to your healing and make you feel extra supported. I am sincerely sorry about your trauma, please know we believe you. You can throw me or any staff member a PM with questions, thoughts, or for some company. We've got you! Take gentle care - W ☀️
  12. Today was cracray. I cleaned the bath and my room, washed + oiled my hair, did a full day of studying, had laundry day and hit the gym. I hope I'll be done early with my assignment tomorrow cause mama needs weekend ASAP. 

    1. Pushed over

      Pushed over

      Sounds like a busy day... yes take some time for you...

  13. Hello and welcome here! I am Wanna Yes, this site is very helpful being a community. You can share what you'd like to and connect to fellow survivors. You decide how often you'll sign in and in what ways you'll participate. Take your time to get to know this site. I and the other staff are happy to help if you'd have any questions or need some chatting/venting. After Silence invites all survivors to join our support system, wherever you may be at in your own journey. Please check your inbox for some information to get you started. Wishing you a good weekend - W ☀️
  14. I got the highest grade on my assignment I had a month ago. I am so happy my effort paid off. I spent a heck of a lot of time on that paper. 

    1. sk8er

      sk8er

      Omg! congrats! I know that feeling-- and It's always better when you know you've put the effort In, glad to know things are going good.

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @sk8er Yes, finally. I changed my major last fall and for the first time I actually pass stuff and comprehend stuff, so I work to keep that afloat. 

    3. sk8er

      sk8er

      Oh coool, I didn't know that

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  15. Hello and welcome here! I am a bit late, but just wanted to greet you. I go by Wanna and if I can assist you or if you'd need some venting/support I am here. I hope you are okay despite the circumstances. Take care, okay? - W ☀️
  16. Gosh, thank God it's Friday. I had over a hundred pages assigned to read this week, aside from watching lectures. I will put the last pages behind me and then take a really chill weekend. I have theater tickets for tomorrow, was some time ago I attended live entertainment. 

    1. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @Finchy Thank you! It's a lot, but I feel my teachers are respecting the 40-hours a week-appreciation and that I do follow. 

    2. Doll6

      Doll6

      I hope you get it all done and can enjoy the theatre! 

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @Doll6 I actually did some today just to calm myself. 

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  17. Hello and welcome on board MysticMouse! I go by Wanna First off, I am sincerely sorry about your trauma and how it affects your life. This is a safe place for you to connect with fellow survivors and experience a community. You can share what you feel comfortable to, discuss coping mechanisms, exchange support and much more. We all carry a unique story, but we also tend to relate here. Please know we believe you, and that you have nothing to be ashamed about. If you have any questions or need some support/company, you can PM me or any staff member of choice. Take gentle care,
  18. Welcome too Leigh66! Please check your inbox for some information
  19. Hello Sarah, I am Wanna I hope you've had a restful weekend. I am glad you chose this forum, this is a safe place for us survivors to connect. You can discuss anything here really, would it be specifics of your trauma, coping strategies or just plain life. You decide what to share, of course. No pressure! We all carry a unique story, but survivors tend to relate to each other. You deserve to feel better and experience a functional life. We believe you I am just one private message away if you'd need some company or support. Us staff are here for you! Take gentle care / W ☀️
  20. Are we recycling last year's April Fools profile picture? Yes, I remember 😉 

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Of course! It's my official April Fool's picture. :lol: 

    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Hehehe ok fine, I found a new one... 😉 

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      That is my face when somebody forces me to watch sports. 

  21. Ah, finally Saturday! I am going to color my hair today, black with pink stripes I think. 

    1. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Happy April fools @Dawn76, appreciate tho you had my back in case I was going for such a bold look. I am not that cool 😉 

    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Ooh nice!! ...

      ..Oh, April Fool's lol! Darn! :lol: It would've been so cool!

    3. Dawn76

      Dawn76

      Well darn, and here i thought i was encouraging a little rebellion lol you're still awsome with out the black and pink hair :)

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  22. Hello Broken Zero, I am Wanna I am sorry nothing else has worked. Finding the right treatment and coping strategies is a journey on its own, I hope you'll find a suitable option one day. Anyhow, a support system is an important key ingredient in healing. After Silence is a safe space for you to connect with fellow survivors. You can share your trauma, exchange advice, and just chat about life in general. Everyone has their own journey, but we tend to relate to each other here. You decide what you'd like to share and when, no pressure! We believe you, and I am sincerely sorry about
  23. Hello Omgbrit! I am Wanna Yes you did, and we are so happy to have you! After Silence provides a safe space for all survivors to connect, share and relate. You can post about your trauma, exchange advice, and just chat about life in general. You decide how much you'd like to tell, no pressure whatsoever. You pick the pace. Sometimes, it takes a survivor to understand a survivor. Healing is a rocky road, with ups and downs, but you are not alone. We believe you. Let me know if you'd have any questions or just need a chat. I am one PM away Take gentle care, W ☀️
  24. Can't wait for the weekend! Tomorrow, I am moving into my brother's old room which is originally a a living room. He left his two desks behind, which I will build a home office with. I also get to have the family Mac in my room, so I will have a bigger computer to work with. 

    I will start with furnishing and then order home from IKEA to give the room that little extra touch. 

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      That sounds great!! 😄❤️ 

    2. sk8er

      sk8er

      omg so cool, decorating Is the best part

       

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