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wishinuponastar

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  1. Please sit with me really dark thoughts

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      Sorry you are having a tough time right now, definitely sitting with you!! You are not alone and you can get through this.

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  2. Just saw you were on. It has been so long!! Just wanted to say hi and you are missed!!

  3. Just saw you were on. It has been so long!! Just wanted to say hi and you are missed!!

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      It is a bit different, no this is not private. If you would like we can PM to catch up and chat :) This kind of like a newsfeed on Facebook.

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  4. Just saw you were on. It has been so long!! Just wanted to say hi and you are missed!!

  5. Just saw you were on. It has been so long!! Just wanted to say hi and you are missed!!

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      With any other team, I could agree but with the Texans yeah it is just sad. :( Until we get rid of Rick Smith we will never have a good team in Houston. sigh....

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  6. Just saw you were on. It has been so long!! Just wanted to say hi and you are missed!!

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      Hehe I saw you were posting on Jen's page. You can see. He is doing so well we are playing Savage now hehehe :)

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  7. Just wanted to say it is nice to see you around the board again. Thinking of you!

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      :) it is good that you are taking it easy on yourself, you really deserve it. I understand what you mean :) 

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  8. Sorry been a way so long. So much going on. I apologize for failing at my duties here. I am working on getting more centered and get myself back on track. There has been emergencies, sicknesses and out of town travel. Hope all is well, looking forward to getting back in contact with everyone!

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      (((hugs)) I am glad it does, it is just the truth though :wink: You are too sweet. I have missed you too

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  9. Sorry been a way so long. So much going on. I apologize for failing at my duties here. I am working on getting more centered and get myself back on track. There has been emergencies, sicknesses and out of town travel. Hope all is well, looking forward to getting back in contact with everyone!

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      You are dealing with so much right now, you need this time for yourself. You are still such a support to so many on the board. Take this time for yourself, that is what we are all here for, to get support and help as we are able. Please don't feel bad for getting the support you need. You are doing just fine :hug::hug: I understand the struggle though, just try not to be so hard on yourself :) 

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  10. Sorry been a way so long. So much going on. I apologize for failing at my duties here. I am working on getting more centered and get myself back on track. There has been emergencies, sicknesses and out of town travel. Hope all is well, looking forward to getting back in contact with everyone!

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      (((Iheartcupcake)))) Thank you. I have been checking in and I have seen so much of the upset you have been dealing with just did not have the energy/ability to reply. Thank you. (((((huggies))))) hope you are taking care of yourself!

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  11. I signed up for this message board so long ago and never logged on. But it's been a year and I'm still having bouts of crying, anger, and feeling broken. I'm tired and getting whiplash. I'm so frustrated at everything.

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      It takes time. Often we come and go here on this board. It is the way of the board but we are always here listening and supporting. I am sorry that you are still struggling but know you are supported here. 

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  12. I'm back.  :hi:  I was on vacation, and I forced myself to unplug.  It was a necessary break from everything.  I will be catching up on posts now.  Please forgive me if I missed something important!  (Or just tag me.)

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      Welcome back :) Good for you!!! We all need a break and there is no need to apology for taking care of you. I know you have been dealing with a lot so it is good that you took a break and took some you time. Looking forward to seeing you around the board.

  13. :tear: a good friend passed away from breast cancer

  14. I tried to find the thread that we talked about PTSD on but I couldn't so I'm just going to post what I recently found here because I thought it was interesting.

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  15. thank you for directing me in the right direction I am still trying to figure how to post comments but I will figure it out but thank you lok forward to chatting sometime

  16. My anxiety has turned into this dreadful worry that people are thinking the worst of me.  Maybe that's social anxiety?  I'm not sure, but whatever it is, it is insanely annoying.

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      wishinuponastar

      :wink: had to make sure to keep it out there. Thinking of you. 

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  17. My anxiety has turned into this dreadful worry that people are thinking the worst of me.  Maybe that's social anxiety?  I'm not sure, but whatever it is, it is insanely annoying.

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      No one thinks the worst of you. I can relate to these feelings though. They are annoying. It is good you are posting so people can remind you how strong and great you are :) thinking of you. 

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  18. thank you for directing me in the right direction I am still trying to figure how to post comments but I will figure it out but thank you lok forward to chatting sometime

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      You are welcome. I am glad to help. It does take a bit of getting used to. You can always post status' but you can also reply directly in a particular post and you can start your own "thread" or post about your own topic. Look forward to chatting with you as well. Always glad to help and if I don't have the answer then I can guide you to someone who does. :)

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  19. I didn't think it was possible for my heart to break any further...I was wrong. I have cried all weekend over what I found out that is in my post about the wife's statement. I am even more shattered than I was before...but at least I have some answers now. 

  20. hi I am new to this sight and really do not know where to go to be able to share listen and chat with other survivors

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      Good afternoon,

      I just happened to see your post and wanted to see if I could help a bit. There are many sections on AS where you can share. We have sections like "Gathering Place" where you can get support, "Aftermath" where you can share about you struggles with nightmares, flashbacks, etc., we have a humor section where we post silly things or simple life where you can share what is going on with your life. We also have "Share Your Story" where you can post your story. Also, we have a chat room, link for chat: http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.php?/chat/

      For the Chat Room and the Share Your Story, you must have at least 10 posts in order to access them. To see how many posts you have, you can view your content count which is below/beside your image on your profile.

      I hope that this offers so help. Please let myself or any other section mods, newbie support or moderators know if you have any additional questions. Welcome to AS :)

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  21. I didn't think it was possible for my heart to break any further...I was wrong. I have cried all weekend over what I found out that is in my post about the wife's statement. I am even more shattered than I was before...but at least I have some answers now. 

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      Thinking of you and joining Whisper sitting with you. :bighug::hug::lindybunnie: I can't imagine how hard it is, but at least you are healing from it all. Keep talking it through and know that we are supporting you!   

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  22. I am sad. I am exhausted. I want this trial to be over and at the same time I dread it. 

    Why do I care so much about the DA valuing me and caring? Why does it hurt me when she doesn't show either? I wish I could stop...It hurts...

  23. I am sad. I am exhausted. I want this trial to be over and at the same time I dread it. 

    Why do I care so much about the DA valuing me and caring? Why does it hurt me when she doesn't show either? I wish I could stop...It hurts...

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      I am glad it did. I can understand you feeling that way, but just like Whisper constantly reminds us, the board is here for us to post and get support. You should never fear posting or worry that you are doing it too much. You can post as much or as little as you want, that is what we are here for. Keep talking, getting it out and know that you are supported here. Thinking of you!

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  24. I am sad. I am exhausted. I want this trial to be over and at the same time I dread it. 

    Why do I care so much about the DA valuing me and caring? Why does it hurt me when she doesn't show either? I wish I could stop...It hurts...

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      (((Iheartcupcakes)))) I never endured a trial. I cannot imagine the pain and anxiety you are feeling, but know that you are supported. You will get through this. Keep posting and letting it out. Heard you like this emoticon -->:lindybunnie::lindybunnie::lindybunnie::lindybunnie: so hope it brings a smile :) Sitting with you! :bighug:

       

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  25. Taking care of some things at home tonight. Be back tomorrow in full form!

    1. wishinuponastar

      wishinuponastar

      We have to take care of ourselves. Get what you need done and we will be here. :)

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