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  1. Hi. Coming back on here because it's been a bad time for me.  I know sounds pathetic.  I would have hoped after all this time working on healing, I wouldn't have the nightmares, flashbacks, strong self hate and shame attacks.  I hope you are doing ok.  Take care my friend.


  2. Hi.  Long time since we talked.  I have done ok but am not doing well for the past year or so due to a number of things in my life including a death of a friend which was very unexpected.  Even though I know it's not exactly true, I feel in many ways that I have spiraled down back to square one.   How are things going for you my friend?  I hope you have a good couple of weeks during this season.


    1. sassmaster2000


      I read your message this morning but couldn't figure out how to get back to it. I'm completely unfamiliar with this new site. Is our thread private?

      I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you're not doing well. Praying for comfort as you grieve and heal.

      I'm doing pretty well. Still in therapy, which I desperately want to be over. T says I'm not there yet, so I keep going.

      Are you still in the same job?

      Blessings to you my friend.

    2. splitperson3


      Yes I am still here in Iowa and doing the same job.  I am not sure our thread is private as I've been gone from AS for a time.  Thanks for kind words and take care.

  3. Just saw you were on. It has been so long!! Just wanted to say hi and you are missed!!

  4. Hey friend it has been so long just saw you online and wanted to say hi!

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    2. wishinuponastar


      I can understand. I try to keep up with the rules, but the way that they change year to year. It is something....Actually I don't think I had a Texan this year. I had a few Pats players, both got injured (Edleman and Lewis) and Flacco (got hurt) was my QB. These were my biggest point getters honestly. I also had the Broncos kicker so it was a good team starting out...just with the injuries :( sigh!

    3. sassmaster2000


      Fantasy sounds so stressful. I just want to root for my team because I like them, and not have to worry about getting points. I'm hoping the NFL can determine what constitutes a catch as this is just getting ridiculous.

    4. wishinuponastar


      Well I play for fun so it isn't so stressful. I feel like it keeps me more connected and engaged. Oh yeah those rules have changed a bit. I kind of like the force out rule well at least when it applies to the other team and keeps them from a TD!!

  5. Wow, that's really powerful. It made me kinda misty.
  6. In our house it's always been said that the smoke alarm is the dinner bell...and it's not a joke. Cooking isn't my best virtue either. Let it be known that I haven't had a fire in the oven since Saturday, so there!
  7. This just made me smile, thanks for sharing. Sssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssparkles, Sass
  8. Skye, I belong to a non-denom church and we don't focus on the dollars but rather on pointing people to Jesus. I'm sorry that that was the experience you had growing up and I can see why it left bad memories. T and I were just talking on Tuesday about my need to shelter the Littles from certain things and therefore I'm very careful about what I watch and hear. We talked about the fact that I have never seen Gibson's The Passion. I'm with you on that; I will never see it because I know that we would all be traumatized for life. I am just now to the point where I can take communion without disso
  9. I saw your post and I see your pain in this entry. I'm so sorry and we are here to offer support. I pray that someday Ladybug's ears and mind will be opened and she will hear what it was that she really said to you and come back to make it right. (((((((Skye)))))))))
  10. Wow, I am so sorry that you have to deal with this and so thankful that Aqua was there to offer comfort and support. I am also glad to see that J is becoming a friend. What a blessing to you all. I don't have many words but wanted you to know that I read it and am praying for healing.
  11. Skye, I'm sorry that you have to force yourself through Art T for the next few weeks. It must be really hard to see her and know how she feels about you. Know that you have our support. You caught my attention when you wrote about Orange's fashion sketches. I am a total fashionista and would love to see them. I only watch awards shows to see what the women are wearing :-) I'm not up enough on movies and tv to actually be aware of who acted in what. I hope you all enjoy the show tomorrow. It sounds like it will be a lot of fun! Blessings, Sass
  12. YAY WOLFIE!!! Way to silence the negative voice of your father! I wish you all the best as you undertake this next step in reaching your goal. Blessings, Sass
  13. Skye, I'm sorry that you are grieving the loss of the jacket. I don't think Copper meant anything unkind toward you by throwing it out but I know that doesn't make it hurt any less. I am sitting with you as you grieve. Sass
  14. Little Girl, I am finally going to let you have your way tonight and you get to sleep with your stuffed animal. I know you've needed the comfort and I haven't let you have that because it keeps me awake. Tonight is about you and your needs so enjoy!
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