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John

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  1. Hey Mate, What seems to be the problem? What emails are you getting in regards to the Adult forum? If it's the email notification of replies you're getting if you uncheck the "Enable email notification of replies" box before you make a reply then that should stop you getting notifications, you can also change this setting in your profile for all you replies. Just have a look in my controls. I'm not really sure what emails you're talking about, so this is really all I can suggestion at the moment, hope you can figure it out, my PM box is open if you need my help at all John
  2. (((((((((Sharon)))))))))) I don't think asking for a name change is wrong, sometimes we need to move on from our old usernames, I personally changed my username to John from biggestfoot a while ago, it was a big step of me because it symbolized me coming out of hiding about what happened to me and on this website showing everyone "this is who I am". For me I found it quite healing and would never want me username changed back now, just do it when the time is right for you
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    Hi

    Hey Jen, I'm glad that you've decided to become active on AS, I remember when I first joined for a little while I just came and had a look around, didn't join, didn't do anything, for prob about a month, and then I decided to join, have a look around, and then decided to become an active member, so yeah, everyone gets used to things at their own pace, just come here at whatever pace suites you best I'm glad you're here, but I'm sorry for what brings you here, but please know you're amongest people who understand and care here and please feel free to PM me anytime
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    Hey!

    Hey Blake, Welcome to AfterSilence - I hope that you're able to find the healing you deserve here and I am very sorry for the pain which you've been through. Please know you're not alone here at AfterSilence and their are so many people here who understand what you're going through. I look forward to seeing you here
  5. Hey Damian143 Welcome to AfterSilence - Your wife really does sound amazing and I am sure she is so strong and I'm glad you've come here as a supporter to get help for yourself and advise on how you can help her through her pain. I'm really glad to see you here and please do feel free to PM me anytime
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    Hi!

    Hey stardusthealer, I am very sorry for what your kids have been through, I recently told my parents what happened to me, only about a year ago, it was thanks to AS I had to strength to tell them, and I saw the pain they went through, and the hurt, all because of someone selfish actions, and I am very sorry you're going through this too. I'm very sorry I'm glad you've come here, and are sharing what your family has gone through with us here at AS, we're here to help
  7. Hi friendofafriend I'm sorry you're having abit of difficulty, but please know you can PM me anytime if you need assistance...I'm sure we'll be able to help you figure out some of the probs you're having I look forward to having you here and I hope you can work AS out soon Take gentle care John
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    Hi

    Hey IMJ1990, Welcome to Aftersilence I'm very sorry for the hurt that you've endured and the pain that you've been feeling since, it's very wrong, however please know you've done nothing wrong and that you coming here to AfterSilence to be with other survivors like yourself is a very positive step and one I am very happy you've made I am looking forward to seeing you here at AS and please do feel free to PM me anytime
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    Hi

    Hey atw, Welcome to AfterSilence - I'm sorry for what brings you here however it does provide me with some hope and happiness that you've come here, and I'm glad that you have come here - It's totally ok to not feel ready to talk about what happened to you, that's totally understandable and please just know that we'll be here with open ears when you are ready Take gentle care and please feel free to PM me anytime John
  10. Hey AutumnFalls, I'm really glad you've come here and I really hope Aftersilence can be a place where you can come and let it all out and be understood and validated for your feelings, I really hope this place can give you that, and I am almost cetain it will, as it has done this for me. I think you're very brave for coming here and speaking out, it's a very good thing to do, and as I fellow survivor I am very proud of you! I look forward to seeing you here at AS, and hope you find the comofort and validation you deserve here This really is such a wonderful understanding, and caring community John
  11. Hey there, and Welcome to AfterSilence - I am hoping that place where you can feel comfortable and understood is here .. for me is has been so I hope for you also you can find that comfort here It's ok to be abit scared and shaken, I was like that too when I first came to AS, but please remember you're not doing anything wrong at all .. and I just want to say I feel very proud for you, for you to have the courage to come here and not be in silence anymore, I think that a very important and wonderful step in your healing I look forward to seeing you here at AfterSilence and hope to get to know you better as time goes by - always feel free to PM me
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    New Here

    Hey DannyFace, Welcome to AfterSilence, I am glad that your friends recommended this place to you and I hope that this place is also helpful to you, personally I've found AfterSilence to be so helpful, and I hope that the same caring and understanding can be passed onto you, I am sure it will. Please come here when you need a place where you can talk openly about your hurts I look forward to seeing you here John
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    Hi Everyone

    Hey Eve, and Welcome to AfterSilence I am very glad you've taken the step to join us here at AfterSilence and becoming part of our healing community, I'm glad that you're here and I hope that you find the healing and support you need here, please feel free to turn to us anytime, please feel free to PM me anytime
  14. Hey SPQR, AfterSilence is run from a system called Ip.Board from Invision Power Services, and it isn't possible to securely intergate the Ip.Board system with a "Ventrilo Server", also it's almost impossible to moderator or monitar a Ventrilo server system which you've proposed, although I know you have only the best of intentions at heart, I really don't think it would be appropriate for AfterSilence, our Java chatroom Chat Sigma, can if we ever see the need, demand and have the resources to facilitate, have voice added to it, however looking at the demand and the nature of AfterSilence as a website I don't think this would really be on the cards at this point. None-the-less your suggestion, as are all suggestions, will be passed to the boards moderating team for consideration, and I'd also like to thank-you for making this suggestions and for offering the resources you have available to help AfterSilence. That's very kind of you offer Please keep the suggestions coming John
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    New Here

    Hey there jadeonyx It's great to see a new face at AfterSilence and I'm glad you're here, but I'm very sorry for what bring you here, but glad non-the-less you're here , This is a epically validating and supportive place, and I really am sure everyone here will welcome you with open arms, (I know I am ) I'm looking forward to having you here and I hope you can become another awesome additions to our wonderful community of people we have here at AS Pm me anytime
  16. Hey Tanya, I'm not really sure if we've come across each other here at AS before?I'm John Anyways, it's great to see you here and I hope you find what you're looking for here, I'm really glad you're reaching out to people by coming here and I'm looking forward to seeing you here at AS John
  17. Hey adelleda, Your story is still important, and it still matter, we don't compare our stories to each others here, we just say they're all important and that we're all here to support each other through the hard time - I am glad that you've come here, and I look forward to having you here, and I'm so glad you want to help That's very sweet John
  18. Hi hiven, Because you're registered as a researcher unfortunately you won't be given access to the chat room, the chat room is only available to member who have registered as survivors on AS John
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    New

    Hi there I'm very sorry for what's happened to you, and I am sorry that you see him almost every day, that must be very hard - please know I think you're very brave person, and I am glad you've come here to keep support and understanding, and I hope you lean on us here at AS when the going gets tough, because we're here to support you Welcome to AfterSilence
  20. Hey there Cami!! Welcome to AS, really glad to see you here, and am glad you're reaching out like this - you seem like a really bubby person and I look forward to having you around here - AS is somewhere where you can come and be with other people who have survived the type of things you have, and where you can get support and understanding. You're never alone here ... I look forward to seeing you here at AS :hug:
  21. Hey there Bee, I'm really glad you've come here, however I am so sorry about what brings you here, please know this place is a very supportive place where we survivors can band togeather and support each other through the hard times, we're all here to support each other so please lean on us when you need abit of support I look forward to seeing you around AfterSilence and please feel free to PM me anytime
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    Hi

    Hey Roni, Welcome to AfterSilence of course you deserve your own thread, I'm really glad you started this thread so we could all welcome you here :hug: :hug: - And pass on hugs too I'm sorry for what brings you here but I am glad you're here, and please know this place is very supportive and helpful :hug: I look forward to seeing you around AS, and please feel free to PM me anytime John
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    Hello :]

    Hey Katie, I just wanted to say Welcome to AfterSilence, I wanna say you're here for all the right reasons, and I really look forward to having you here at AS, you seem from what I can see in this posts as quiet a bubbly and nice person, and I look forward to having your obviously great personality around here brightening up this place Feel free to PM me anytime John
  24. Hey ReadyToHeal, As a safety precaution and so we can get to know you before we talk to you in real time in the chat room we have a minimum post level of 10posts before a member can enter the chat room. Once you've made this many posts you should be able to enter no problems John
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