Hi, I'm new and nervous

[beleni]

Hi everyone, my name is Eleni and I'm hoping to just find support on here and be able to support others. It's extremely difficult for me to talk about anything related to my trauma with my T, and I was hoping I would be able to find people who can understand a bit better. I've felt so alone for a very long time, and I'm sick of it. Just a bit nervous about joining this community. I've never done anything like this, and I'm worried people are going to hate me. I'm very scared of upsetting people too. Idk. Sorry for the paragraph, thank you for reading <3

[Tsabu]

Hi Eleni,

Welcome to AS!!  😊

I am sorry for what has brought you here....but glad that you have reached out!  

It is understandable to feel nervous and worried.  That is perfectly normal....this is something new.  Please know that you are surrounded by fellow survivors who are here to support you.  

Standing with you as you move forward on your healing journey.  

Take much gentle care.  🌺

Tsabu.  

 

 

[missfrier]

Dear  eleni

 

Welcome to After Silence. I am sorry to hear of the trauma you have been through!

 

Being here has helped me so much. Everyone is so caring and supportive here. I am proud of you for reaching out. I know that is hard to do. I also know that you will find that needed compassion and support here within our community. Know we are here for you and we will listen whenever you would like to lean on us.    

 

Take care and please do not hesitate to ask for any help if you ever need it.  

[WannaMoveOn]

3 hours ago, beleni said:

Hi everyone, my name is Eleni and I'm hoping to just find support on here and be able to support others. It's extremely difficult for me to talk about anything related to my trauma with my T, and I was hoping I would be able to find people who can understand a bit better. I've felt so alone for a very long time, and I'm sick of it. Just a bit nervous about joining this community. I've never done anything like this, and I'm worried people are going to hate me. I'm very scared of upsetting people too. Idk. Sorry for the paragraph, thank you for reading ❤️

Hello Eleni! 

Welcome on board, I am Wanna  You did a wise decision, finding a community. I believe an anonymous platform is useful for our healing in many ways. After Silence offers the opportunity to find and connect with other survivors. To relate, vent, exchange advice and much more!

You can come here as often as you'd like, and share within the amount you feel comfortable with. Our members are kind and understanding, and we have waterproof rules to keep the atmosphere welcoming. 

Take your time. You can always PM me or any staff member of choice if you'd need support, would have questions or to vent/chat. 

Stay safe, 

W ☀️

[kitesinthesky]

Hi Eleni

I wanted to send you my support and my warmest welcome. Welcome to AS.  It's so very nice to meet you. I'm a survivor too and I can relate to how you feel. I think you are so brave to reach out and make that first step. I hope you find a lot of caring and support here.  

[MeBeMary]

Hi beleni and welcome!

I am sorry for the reasons that have brought you here but be assured...everyone here is understanding and kind! You are supported and validated and yes, cared about. The relatability factor makes this possible. Even if the trauma isn't exactly the same, the struggles and the insecurities and the drive to heal are. This is a thread that binds us all and makes us all feel just a little less alone on this journey we were making. 

You will this and feel this with a little time, I am certain. Feel free to look about and read and interact where you feel the most comfortable. I am proud of you for reaching out. This can be a very important step on your continuing journey in healing and we know it's not easy. We are here with you, tho!

Best wishes. 

Mary

 

[Doll6]

Welcome Eleni! 

[QuietQ]

Welcome Eleni to this supportive community

[Dawn76]

Welcome to AS Eleni.