lacrymosa

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About lacrymosa

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    Colors outside the lines.
  • Birthday June 19

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    Female
  • Location
    USA
  • Interests
    Writing, running, graphics, painting, reading, shopping, history, music, tree hugging, learning, healing, and laughing.

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    Survivor

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  1. Hi Sharla, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I think a lot of survivors can relate to the issues of anger you've described. I hope the books that were recommended are helpful to you. I also can relate to passivity. Being triggered by confrontation, or the perception of your control being threatened are extremely common in survivors. You're not alone. If you have any questions, or just need someone to talk to, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  2. Hi Sazhuhy, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I think it's great that you love your job! I also consider AS to be a safe place, and am confident you'll find yourself feeling like you belong here in no time. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to getting to know you over time.
  3. Welcome back!
  4. Hi Chelsea, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. Thanks for introducing yourself, and allowing us to welcome you. If you find yourself getting lost or overwhelmed, feel free to message me, and I'll help you out. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  5. Hi forbidforgot, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I hope you find our community to be supportive and helpful in your healing. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I'll see you around the site.
  6. Hi Cat, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm sorry for the reasons that brought you here, but hope you find lots of support and understanding here. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to getting to know you over time.
  7. Hi Jay, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm assuming your female from how you registered. Is this correct? If not, let me know. I hope you find AS to be supportive and compassionate as you work on your healing. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I'll see you around the site.
  8. Hi biloute, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I can totally relate to how a relationship can bring everything you thought was settled back to the surface. I think it's totally normal to heal some, rest some, and then resume healing. I'm sorry to hear that you're having trouble with sleep. Again, I can relate. I don't have any simple answer as to what you're to do now, but I think joining AS was a positive step for sure. Here, you can speak with other survivors, all of whom know English either as their first language, or quite fluently. I can understand your hesitation to seek help in a foreign country, but perhaps giving it a try to see if it helps won't hurt? If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  9. Hi StormyPugs, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I am curious about the user name you chose. What does it mean to you, if you're okay with sharing? I was really nervous when I joined too. Feel free to explore the site a bit, and if you find yourself getting lost or overwhelmed, you can message me, and I'll help you out. I look forward to seeing you around the site. Welcome!
  10. Hi

    Hi Lettheflamesbegin, Congratulations on joining After Silence! Congrats on leaving a bad situation as well. I'm glad you're making positive changes in your life, and am sure you'll find plenty of support here as you heal. I was very nervous when I joined too. Take your time, and know that you can participate as much or as little as you feel comfortable with. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  11. Hi LadyTerri, I'm glad to have you among us. Thanks for introducing yourself. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  12. Hi

    Hi zinky, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I love your username! Thanks for posting and letting us know you're here, so we can welcome you. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. Take care, and see you around the site.
  13. Hey

    Hi Waterbaby, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. Thanks for posting and allowing us to welcome you. I can relate to facing things after years of trying to stifle them. You're not alone. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  14. Hi

    Hi kmarie, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling pretty overwhelmed right now. Hopefully reading and sharing with people who truly understand will help. I know it's helped me. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. Take care, and I'll see you around.
  15. Hi sunshine, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. Well done! I'm confident you'll find lots of support and understanding here. If you find yourself getting lost, feel free to message me, and I'll be happy to help. I look forward to seeing you around the site.