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lacrymosa

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  1. Hi Sharla, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I think a lot of survivors can relate to the issues of anger you've described. I hope the books that were recommended are helpful to you. I also can relate to passivity. Being triggered by confrontation, or the perception of your control being threatened are extremely common in survivors. You're not alone. If you have any questions, or just need someone to talk to, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  2. Hi Sazhuhy, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I think it's great that you love your job! I also consider AS to be a safe place, and am confident you'll find yourself feeling like you belong here in no time. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to getting to know you over time.
  3. Hi Chelsea, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. Thanks for introducing yourself, and allowing us to welcome you. If you find yourself getting lost or overwhelmed, feel free to message me, and I'll help you out. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  4. Hi forbidforgot, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I hope you find our community to be supportive and helpful in your healing. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I'll see you around the site.
  5. Hi Cat, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm sorry for the reasons that brought you here, but hope you find lots of support and understanding here. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to getting to know you over time.
  6. Hi Jay, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm assuming your female from how you registered. Is this correct? If not, let me know. I hope you find AS to be supportive and compassionate as you work on your healing. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I'll see you around the site.
  7. Hi biloute, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I can totally relate to how a relationship can bring everything you thought was settled back to the surface. I think it's totally normal to heal some, rest some, and then resume healing. I'm sorry to hear that you're having trouble with sleep. Again, I can relate. I don't have any simple answer as to what you're to do now, but I think joining AS was a positive step for sure. Here, you can speak with other survivors, all of whom know English either as their first language, or quite fluently. I can understand your hesitation to seek help
  8. Hi StormyPugs, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I am curious about the user name you chose. What does it mean to you, if you're okay with sharing? I was really nervous when I joined too. Feel free to explore the site a bit, and if you find yourself getting lost or overwhelmed, you can message me, and I'll help you out. I look forward to seeing you around the site. Welcome!
  9. Hi Lettheflamesbegin, Congratulations on joining After Silence! Congrats on leaving a bad situation as well. I'm glad you're making positive changes in your life, and am sure you'll find plenty of support here as you heal. I was very nervous when I joined too. Take your time, and know that you can participate as much or as little as you feel comfortable with. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  10. Hi LadyTerri, I'm glad to have you among us. Thanks for introducing yourself. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
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    Hi

    Hi zinky, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I love your username! Thanks for posting and letting us know you're here, so we can welcome you. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. Take care, and see you around the site.
  12. Hi Waterbaby, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. Thanks for posting and allowing us to welcome you. I can relate to facing things after years of trying to stifle them. You're not alone. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
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    Hi

    Hi kmarie, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling pretty overwhelmed right now. Hopefully reading and sharing with people who truly understand will help. I know it's helped me. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. Take care, and I'll see you around.
  14. Hi sunshine, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. Well done! I'm confident you'll find lots of support and understanding here. If you find yourself getting lost, feel free to message me, and I'll be happy to help. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
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    Hi flea, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm sorry to hear that everything is hitting you now, but in a way, it's best to work through it, rather than have it stored away like a time bomb. I can relate to having the past come back to rock my world, as I'm sure many others here can as well. Take your time, and have a look around the site. You can read and respond to posts made by others, and you can also create your own. Perhaps posting about how you're doing right now, and asking any questions you may have in the Aftermath forum or the Need to Vent forum, if you like. You can al
  16. Hi daisysusan, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm glad to hear that you're finding yourself ready for the community of other survivors. Congrats on that step forward in your healing. I'm sure you'll find plenty of support and compassion here. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  17. Hi tchoney, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. It can be a bit overwhelming when first joining, so take your time and have a look around the site. You will soon find that many of us are going through similar in our aftermath, and can relate. If you have any questions, feel free to message me, and I'll be happy to answer. I'm confident that you've taken a positive step in your healing by joining AS. From here, you have many options. You can read posts by other survivors, respond to them if you like, or share about yourself if you feel comfortable. You don't have to share anything i
  18. Hi envyshadows, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I also joined in order to work on my healing. I'm sure you'll find plenty of support here, as well as other survivors who truly understand the challenges of aftermath. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  19. Hi Liz, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm confident you'll find lots of support here, as well as people who truly understand the aftermath of such trauma. Take a look around, and feel free to share as little or as much about how you're doing as you're comfortable with. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  20. Hi bnewvision, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm sure you'll find plenty of support and understanding here, among your peer survivors. Take your time and know that there is no pressure to share anything you don't feel comfortable in sharing. If you have any questions, feel free to message me.
  21. Hi Racheng, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm sorry to hear that you were raped, and are coping with the aftermath of the trauma. You'll find that many of us here at AS can relate, and you're not alone. The loss of control, and fears that sometimes seem irrational plague most survivors, including myself. I hope you find plenty of support and understanding here. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to getting to know you over time.
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    Hey

    Hi Leah, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I hope you find our community to be helpful and supportive in your healing journey. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to seeing you around the site.
  23. Hi Isurvived, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I like the username you chose. Thanks for allowing us to welcome you. I'm sure you'll find plenty of support and compassion here. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I look forward to getting to know you.
  24. Hi GodsGift2Me, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm confident you will find plenty of support and understanding here at AS. I'm glad your mom is supportive of you. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I'll see you around the site.
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