Hi, still making sense of everything

[mrae]

Hi there,

I'm glad I found this forum. I've been battling a lot of shame and self-blame these last few months so I am hoping to connect with others who may be able to share some insight with me. I've been so confused and am only beginning to make sense of my experience. Thank you for your support.  

[8888]

Welcome @mrae to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

[missfrier]

Dear mrae

 

I am sorry for all that you have been through.   You have been so brave in reaching out to us, please know that this is never easy!   We are all here for you and we want to support you.  You're not alone in your healing journey and are always welcome to lean on us for extra support.  You can post as much or as little as you like.  We are here to support you in the way you need.  I have found this community to be very helpful.  Everyone is so understanding and non-judgmental and I am hoping you feel the same way once you've gotten to know us a little.   

 

All my best,

missfrier

 

 

[snmls]

Hi @mrae

Welcome to AS. I'm sorry for the trauma that happened to you, but I'm glad you found the site and decided to join. This is a wonderful site that is filled with caring and supportive people. Sometimes connecting and talking with other survivors can be helpful and help you to feel less alone. It is normal to be confused in the beginning of the healing process, but as time goes by things will get better. We are all here for you. If you need any help using the site, don't be afraid to reach out. 

[MeBeMary]

6 hours ago, mrae said:

Hi there,

I'm glad I found this forum. I've been battling a lot of shame and self-blame these last few months so I am hoping to connect with others who may be able to share some insight with me. I've been so confused and am only beginning to make sense of my experience. Thank you for your support.  

Hi mrae,

Welcome to AfterSilence. I am so sorry for what you experienced and the struggles you are facing. It is common to feel the way you do, but know, you are not to blame. The only one ever to blame is the one who hurts without forethought to your feelings or consent. They had that obligation and failed horribly. You are not alone. We are here for you and we validate what you've been thru.

I encourage you to look around and interact when and where you feel comfortable. You will find much support from our understanding members. Wishing you well as you begin this journey we call healing.

Mary