Haullie

You shoudn't have to prentent to forgive anyone, forgiveness belongs to yourself and to no one else. Whom you decide to forgive and on what terms and where is your own right. It doesn't mean that you shouldn't forgie, I know a lot of survivors who feel better about forgiveing, but understand that it doesn't alays come with everyone and that is perfectly understandable, that is your own right and anyone who doesn't respect that is not worth your effort includeing anyone whom you are close with. They should be open to understanding you more, not in changeing your right to feel. Haullie

I like your avatar Betty!

Ruby, I HAVE been there. And I know that time goes on. I'm 24 years old and I feel like there isn't much left inside of me. And then I meet others who are older than I by a few years and I see how they are expanding their futures and trying to put some belief inside of themselves and I think that is such a wonderful thing. It lets me know that the past is not my enemy it's only the oast and future healing can begin at any moment. Haullie

Dear Survivors and Supporters, I apologize for whatever negative posts have come into this forum. To be quite honest with you I wouldn't know who would want to sabotage a good name. There is always someone out there who is willing to make someone elses life a little harder because they can't seem to help themselves. All we can do is pray that they will one day come out of that sort of hate and dismayal with themselves and whatever they have against us and learn to instead support us. That's exactly why I find it so easy to move on past things like this, I didn't have to actually see the posts

welcome to the forum Madonna. I'm sorry to hear about what you so painfully endured for 4 years. Thankfully that part of your life is over with now and you can finally begin to heal your past with the knowledge you will learn with the support from friends and neighbors, family...ect. We are here for you sweetie. Love, Haullie

Good Advice Verena, RAINN's National Hotline saved my life and it can save yours as well. It's never too late to get out of any dangerous situation. By coming here you are showing your ambition and strength in taking steps nessesary heal and communicate, find information and get support. We hope you will find all of the support to start you out on your journey here. But we do advise contacting someone as soon as possible sweetie. What your Father does to you is wrong. You know this now. Do not feel ashamed if you in the past may have opened up to this, you didn't know okay? You are completely

This to me is one of those un-seen coerced sexual contacts that just make my skin crawl. Men (or women) will use Drugs or Alcohol to alter your way of perception on any matter, not to mention how it makes your whole body feel heavy. I think I speak for everyone when I say what he did was wrong. You were treated as though you were an object. Put it away on the shelf and it won't say a word. Don't let this man get away with anything. True you may not be able to prove it's rape or take him to court over it. But you CAN speak out about it. Or at least tell someone close to you. Perhaps even your b

My heart goes out to you in your stages of healing and I wish you all of the luck in the world getting through these hard times. Keep your chin up sweetie and even though your daughter was born out of rape she is still a miraculous blessing no matter what and I have always said that sometimes good things can come out of bad things no matter what ties they have to them. Blood means nothing, you are her Mother and that is all that matters in the world. I bet looking at her is a walking talking reason to forward any kind of healing process. Haullie

Thank you so much for the wonderful Introduction!

Come back and visit us anytime sweetie. Take your time in speaking out about life in general. Baby steps. We will always support you.

well, hello there

Hi Lindy Gal I MISS YOU DOLL! I'll call you soon I promise. So glad to know this place is filled with so many smiling faces.

Hey you sound like another Jamie I know. LOL Oh yeah! You ARE the Jamie I know! LOL too cool. Hey Jamie how's it going?

Welcome to the forum sweetie nice to see you!