WinterSolstice13

Hello James, my name is Winter. I know how you feel, I came to remember my own dark secret by similar means. It was repressed for a very long time and I've been depressed throughout my life. I also turned to alcohol for a time when I didn't understand why I was depressed, granted I've been through other obscene things so I thought the depression was caused by that. However one day an intimate act triggered a memory and soon images and feelings came flooding back. I drowned myself in alcohol at first but the more I realized why I was depressed the less I wanted to drink. Once I knew why I felt

Dear Sapphire, You may call me Winter. I am struggling with the same thing as you are. My partner of 8 years and I have struggled endlessly with intimacy issues. He is very pacient and supportive but it is still difficult and causes a lot of miscommunication and frustration. I am curious to know what you may have been struggling with, if you would like to chat please let me know. Some advice I can give you is that the person you are with should love and support you no matter what, so if they do then they will do anything to make it work, do not be afraid. =) However, it will be a great deal