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Hello Anneliese.
You will find a lot of support here.Anna -
Welcome Rio. I hope you find this site to be as helpful as I have.
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Welcome, may you find comfort here.
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Welcome Nikki, you are not alone.
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Welcome Steph. This is a wonderful site.
Anna
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Welcome to this site. I have found it to be so very supportive and helpful in my road to recovery
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Welcome Denali.
Take your time and when you are ready to tell your story, we will be here to support you.
Anna
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Hi Erica
I am 45 and just recently starting to deal with my past, took me a long time to even get here !
I too wonder if the pain goes away. I think I have learn to deal with it, some days better than others. The pain may lessen but is always there - at least for me. I am trying to move past the pain and enjoy what I do have in my life (my wonderful children).
I hope you find much support here, I know I have.
Anna
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Welcome to AfterSilence. I hope you find comfort here.
Anna
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Hi, I'm Lauren. It can be quite scarey to have to be here but I think you will find a a lot of support within this site. I have found tremendous support, understanding and caring here.
You are safe here.
Anna
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Welcome to Aftersilence. I hope you find as much comfort and support here as I have
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Welcome to AS. I hope you will find it as helpful in your healing process as I have
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Welcome Nikkipurple. This is a safe place
Anna
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Welcome back
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Welcome to AfterSilence. I have found tremendous support here and I hope you wil find it as well. It is a very good place
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Welcome to AS. I hope you find as much support and encouragement from this site as I have.
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Welcome to AS. I hope you find it as supportive and comforting as I have.
Anna
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Hello Jade. I hope you find support and encouragement here. It is a wonderful site.
Anna
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Welcome Tewlip. Glad you found this site. I have found it to be vert supportinve and comforting.
Anna
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Welcome Lacey. I hope you find much support and encouragement here.
Anna
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Welcome to AS. I hope you find comfort here
Anna
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Welcome ! You are right - we have nothing to be guilty of and we all are beautiful people ! Hope you find this sight as helpful as I have
Anna
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Welcome to AS. I hope you find comfort and support here, I know I have.
Anna
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hi. You are so very not alone in your feelings. I too so very much separate intimacy from love. I have been in a relationship for 4 years with a wonderful man. I used to look at, flirt, talk to ..... men all the time. It was almost like a need that I had to fullfill, regardless of me being in a relationship. Although my intent was never to hurt the man I was with, my desire to be found attractive to other men was very strong. We have had several break ups over the past 4 years and the first thing I did was find a man to be with, did not matter if I even really liked him. I found it very very easy to separate sex from any emotions.
I finally realized, after much soul searching, that this was self destructive behavior (maybe a repercussion of my past abuse). Self destructive behavior can take many forms (drugs, alcohol) - for me it was men. I will not lie and say I still do not have those tendancies, I do. But, I am honest with myself and with my partner and I will tell him when I start to feel a need to "stray". He is very supportive of me. Laslty, I think I have realized that I am a good, beautiful person who does not need a man to define her. This is a hard one for me as I so want acceptance from men (again, reprecussion from my past). But, I know how to stop and not cross those lines again.
So, your feelings are not uncommon at all.
New Girl
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Hello. Welcome to AS. I hope you find this site helpful.
Anna