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wishinuponastar

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  1. Welcome to AS Brunetta! I am sorry for what brings you here but you are not alone. I feel the same about online forums. I struggle as well with periods of denial but you can heal. I hope you find AS a healing, safe place. Any questions you can always ask. Looking forward to seeing you around the board 

    Wishin

  2. Welcome to AS! I echo what Patricia said it is okay not to be okay and don't worry we all feel a bit unsure our first time posting. I hope that you are able to browse our many sections and see that we are supportive and thriving community. Take your time but know we will be here to support you. Looking forward to seeing you around the board. 

    Wishin

  3. (((Aurylith))))

    Welcome to AS! I couldn't agree more that an introduction is the perfect way to start :) I am sorry for what brings you to AS, but I just want to echo what others have said. I hope that you find this to be a comforting and safe place. I hope that you find your way around the board and you are able to share with us. There are many sections here to explore. Know there are great people to answer questions and assist anyway you need. Welcome again! Looking forward to seeing you around the board!

    Wishin

  4. (((FlowerPot)))

    Welcome to AS! I am sorry for what brings you here. I hope that you find the support you are seeking here and you are able to heal. Thinking of you! Looking forward to seeing you around the board.

    Wishin

  5. (((maneticzeros)))

    I am so sorry for what happened! I hope that you are able to find the support you need. It is always difficult to deal with the pain and confusion of assault. I hope that you are able to find your way around and know that you are supported here. Thinking of you. Looking forward to seeing you around the board.

    Wishin

  6. (((SignIn)))

    Welcome to AS! Glad that you have found the site and hope you are able to navigate your way around. I hope that you are able to find the support that you are seeking. I love dogs too! I have a Chihuahua :) .  I hope that you find your way around the board. There are many different sections for different topics. Feel free to browse around. We are here to help and support.

    I did see a bit of your other post and some difficulties you were having. This link is for what we call "Newbie Support". These are people who are able to assist with new members. You can click on their screen names and it will take you to their profile. On their profile you will find a button that says "Message" and there you can send them a PM (private message) where they can assist with questions you might have.

    http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.php?/search/&type=core_members&group[31]=1

    I hope that this helps and know that you are supported and heard. We are here. Thinking of you.

    Wishin

  7. ((Kate))

    Welcome to AS! I am sorry for what brings you here. I am glad that you are finding your way around the board and that you feel this is a supportive place. I am glad that you found it and hope that we are able to help in your healing journey. It is good that you feel you are able to come to the point you are ready to break your silence. We are here to support! Thinking of you!

    Wishin

  8. ((((Helena))))

    Welcome to AS! What you said was perfect. This is just a general introduction and I don't think that anyone really knows what to say with their first posts. I am sorry for what brings you here but I hope that you are able to find the support you need. You are not alone. 

    Wishin

  9. (((((Fluctuat)))))

    Welcome to AS!! I am sorry for what brings you here. I hope that you find your way around the board and you feel comfortable. Take your time and know that there is no rush. We are here and we understand how difficult it is to share. We support you. Thinking of you. Look forward to seeing you around the board. 

    Wishin

  10. ((((Lostwoman)))

    welcome to AS! I am sorry for what brings you here and the struggles you have at night. I know myself and many others can relate. People on here seem pretty active throughout the day and night. I hope that you are able to find the support you seek here. Know that there are so many people who care and understand. You are not alone. Thinking of you. 

    Wishin

  11. (((((Rose)))))

    welcome to AS! This is a beautiful introduction. I know that this site has truly helped me and when I was struggling the most if it hadn't been for this I wouldn't be here. I hope that you find the support that you need here. This board is filled with tons of people who understand. Know that we support you. If you need an ear my inbox is always open. Welcome again. Look forward to seeing you around the board. 

    Wishin

  12. (((((Diamond)))))

    welcome to AS! I am sorry for what brings you here but as you are taking your journey it is good to find good people along the way. This site is filled with tons of people who understand and are supportive. I hope that you find the support you are seeking. Know you are not alone. If you need an ear my inbox is always open. Thinking of you. 

    Wishin

  13. (((((wndrwmn))))))

    Welcome to AS!! I am sorry for what brings you here but I hope that you find the support you are seeking. Know that there are so many supportive people here who understand what you are going through. Look forward to seeing you around the board. 

    Wishin

  14. Welcome to AS and Phoenixxx kind of covered it. There are lots of different sections but each has a description to assist. There are tons of supportive and helpful people too who are more than willing to help. Know that I can assist you if you need, my inbox is always open. Thinking of you. 

    Wishin 

  15. ((((LonelyWalker)))))

    Welcome to AS!! i am sorry for what brings you here but I hope you find the support you are seeking. Know that this board is filled with those who care and understand. Take your time and know hat you are not alone. Thinking of you. Look forward to seeing you around the board. 

    Wishin

  16. ((((Nathalie)))))

    Welcome to AS!! I am truly sorry for what has brought you here. I was assaulted as an adult and when i went to therapy I was dealing with repressed memories. It is very scary and difficult. Know that you have come to the right place though to seek support and find people that understand. 

    I hope that this board helps you on your journey. Know that you are heard and supported. If you need an ear know my inbox is always open. Welcome again. Thinking of you and look forward to seeing you around the board. 

    Wishin

  17. 11 hours ago, BeachyLibrarian said:

    Thank you Wishin! I have reread your post several times and cried because for someone to say that they understand is helpful. I hate that we have both been so alone during this. I have felt so alone and lost because I didn't think that others would fully understand. I have kept it mostly to myself except for talking to my counselor. It has been hard.I am already seeing that AS is a supportive, safe place. Thank you for being welcoming! 

    Awww thank you for your words. I am truly touched and humbled. I completely understand what you mean about feeling alone, that is one of my biggest struggles. Most of the times that I think I found someone who understand and often it turns into another door slammed in my face or at least that is how it feels. I am glad that you are seeing AS is that kind of place and I hope that it is for you too! I am glad to welcome you and know that if need, I am around and my inbox is always open! :)

    Wishin

  18. ((((((MusicGodSurviving)))))

    Welcome to AS! I am sorry for what brings you here, but know that you have come to the right place. This board is filled with people who understand and know you are going through. I am sorry that you were abused by multiple people, I can relate though. I understand wanting to just push it away and most people don't seem to understand that we can't just "get over it". It seems to be one of the hardest things to deal with though, this stigma that others put on us. We are trying to heal and find a way through and nothing seems to really help and then society is like oh who cares and just get over it. It makes it all so complicated and difficult. Please know that you can heal and though it is a long journey, you can do it. I know that this board has been a huge help for me in my journey and I would not be here today if it was not for certain people on this board. Take your time and look around the board, you can post when you feel comfortable, there is no pressure. Know that you are heard and supported. If you need an ear, my inbox is always open. Thinking of you!

    Wishin

  19. Welcome to AS! I can really relate to what you wrote. I never told my family what happened and my friends did not offer support. I would have been lost without this site. I hope that you find it helpful. It is filled with understanding and kind people. You are not alone. If you need an ear I am around. Take your time and the best part of this site is you are able to come and go as you need and as you feel comfortable. Welcome again!

    Wishin

  20. Welcome Sue! I am sorry for what brings you here but if you are looking for support and understanding this is the right place. This board is filled with great people who are willing to listen and help. Know that my inbox is always open if you need an understanding ear. Thinking of you. 

    Wishin

  21. Meggy24

    Welcome to AS! I am sorry for what brings you here but I hope that you find the support you are seeking. This is a very supportive community. There are sections for many different areas of conversation and even some fun or silly ones. Browse around and know that we support you. The best part is you can reply and post as you feel comfortable. Again welcome!! See ya around the board. 

    Wishin

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