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Hi Struggling88 and thanks for the welcome :-)
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Hi Laura, Like you I am new to the site and a bit unsure of what to say and do and also like you I have no one to talk to about any of this, which gets very dark and lonely at times. I hope we can all help each other even if it is baby steps, I really want to become normal again.
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Thank You MeBeMary, Wishinuponastar, phoenixxx and reglois for your friendly welcomes, it means a lot. I didn't know what to do or what to expect but already I am so glad I found this site. Hope to chat to you all again :-)
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Hello everyone, I am a new member and have to admit I'm not really sure what I should be doing and saying right now. I have never done anything like this before yet already I have read many comforting words.
New secondary survivor
in Public: Welcome!
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Hi raincity
Firstly, I am really sorry you are going through this at the minute however it is a positive that your sister felt able to disclose her story to you. It took me over 9 years to be able to tell my family. This was the hardest thing for me, I guess I wanted to protect them from the truth but looking back now I know I made wrong decisions. Apart from the fact that it was something I just didn't want anyone else to know, I didn't want to believe it myself, but my greatest fear was (and still is) that people would treat me differently. I really hope you can find a way to be the way you were with your sister. Her giving you the go ahead to seek help just shows how much she cares about you and she is probably hurting right now that your relationship has been affected now also. You have come to the right place, I am new here myself but already have found it a great comfort. I hope you can work through this. Take Care.