Andrea58 Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 I am really struggling. My throat hurts because of the big lump in it. Tears are constantly clouding my eyes. I do not know why at the age of fifty the incest and child pornography hurt so much Link to post
dodo Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 Hi and welcome to AS I am not far behind in the age race - I have been told that until the past is dealt with it will continue to be there in such an awful way. I am trying to deal with - I just don't seem to know how at the moment! And no worries about being a computer novice - if you have any questions just post and you will get heaps of help best wishes karen Link to post
angelic Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 HI Andrea, I'm Paula , I'm 44, I didnt deal with my stuff until I was in my 30's. Welcome to AS, hope you find peace and healing here PM my any time if you want to chat, best wishes, Paula Link to post
fightergirl Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 Hi And welcome to AS, Im sorry you are going hurting, Hope being here helps you as ithas helped me :hug: Link to post
Survivors sanctuary Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 Welcome to AS, there are a few of us who are over the 40 barrier, so I hope that helps you feel less alone, as well as that I know I was hardly computer minded when I joined but I knew/know that if I have a problem I could/can always ask and not feel embarrassed by the simplest things. Link to post
sisterinsurvival Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 Hi, My name is Lynn, and I am a member of the New Member Support Team. I just wanted to take the time to say welcome to After Silence. I am so sorry for these terrible memories that are tormenting you. I hope that you find comfort and support here. I know that I have found the strength to face another day many times through the words and presence of those dear ones who make this site a true "community." I am glad that you have joined with us and look forward to getting to know you. If you need anything or have questions about the boards or how something works, please send me a personal message. I will gladly help in any way possible...also if you need someone to listen, let me know. Take care, Your Sister in Survival, Lynn Link to post
kmarie Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 Hi, and welcome. I am going to be 40 in a few days, and I've only recently really started dealing with the things that happened to me. I don't think it matters when it happened...when it hurts it hurts. I had never posted anything anywhere before I got to this site...so don't feel badly about being new at this stuff. Like everyone has said, just ask and somebody will help. Never worry about asking. Link to post
whimsical1 Posted December 8, 2008 Share Posted December 8, 2008 Andrea, and welcome to AS! Link to post
Andrea58 Posted December 9, 2008 Author Share Posted December 9, 2008 Thank you everyone for your warmth and kindness. I am determined to beat this thing and I will learn the computer. I would like an image by my name. Can anyone tell me where I can find an avatar. I looked at the ones available on site but did not really find one I felt suited me. Anyway, THANKS!!!!! Andrea Link to post
manchester Posted December 9, 2008 Share Posted December 9, 2008 hello Andrea, good you are here and hope you recieve support you need age does not matter, we all deal with our past at different times in our lives, so welcome Link to post
Survivors sanctuary Posted December 9, 2008 Share Posted December 9, 2008 (edited) Andrea, will PM about Avatar ideas .. A PM is a personal message and it should show up when you log in, to access, go to the top of the page and click on the link at the end, shown in the quote below as 0 New Messages .. If you have a message waiting to be read it will show you how many you have waiting .. My Controls · View New Posts · My Assistant · My Friends · 0 New Messages Oh, and personal messages are basically the in board email service ... They are secure within the board .. All message boards tend to have them .. If you want to send a message you can either reply following the reply link when you read a message or you can click on a persons name and follow the communicate part on the persons profile that I have highlighted in bold .. more than welcome to practice on with my PM service or I'm sure any of the welcome team will be able to help you. AIM No Information Yahoo No Information ICQ No Information MSN No Information Contact Send Message Contact Private Edited December 9, 2008 by Survivors sanctuary Link to post
kimbees324 Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Andrea58, I am really sorry for the things that led you here but I am glad that you found your way to AS. Take your time and look around; I am sure that you will be feeling comfortable and at home in no time. There are some great people here who will offer you the support and encouragement you are looking for and deserve. I look forward to seeing you around the boards. Take good care of yourself, ok? Link to post
oui,mais Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 hey!! welcome to AS!! if okay? Link to post
sunshinee Posted December 16, 2008 Share Posted December 16, 2008 Hey welcome to AS!! You'll find your way around!! It took me awhile!! It still hurts. I know. Hang in there! Link to post
angel123 Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 and welcome to AS Lol Sharon x Link to post
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