colleenp Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 Helo,I am Colleen and a 29 year old rape survivior.I was raped last week and a little shocked.I have lots of support behind me.My mom and step dad Ron,My husband Frank,step sons Frank Jr. and Reese,my friends and my sister in laws Patti and Angie have been behind me with their support which has helped a lot.My mom and step dad Ron know I am a very tough woman that will pul through this.I have taught my daughters,8 year old Abigail and 6 year old Zoey to report any sex crime to me or to my husband if this ever happens to them.The good news is my rapist is behind bars,was caught Monday afternoon.My rapist's mom did the right thing,come forward turning her son in and coperate with police.My rapist is only 17 years old and has been convicted of molesting a 7 year old girl when he was 13 years old,did not get much for a sentence.There are two other women he did this to and we became best friends supporting each other. Link to post
dodo Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 Hi and welcome to AS best wishes karen Link to post
colleenp Posted July 3, 2008 Author Share Posted July 3, 2008 Thanks and I am coping very slowly what happened to me.My mom was glad I did talk to my daughters to report a sex crime if it ever happens to them to my husband or I. Link to post
butterflyinreverse Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 Oh wow, it's really fresh for you. *hugs* I hope you'll find the site to be helpful and supportive. Welcome Link to post
heartsicksad Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 you have been through so much so recently, take good care of yourself. i hope you can find the support you need here. there are some wonderful people here. Welcome Link to post
lacrymosa Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 Hi colleenp, I'm glad you've joined After Silence. I'm sorry for what you've had to endure, and hope you find our community to be a gentle, supportive place. I agree with you parents, that it was a good thing, to teach your daughters to tell if they are harmed. If you have any questions, please feel free to message me. Take care, and I'll see you around the site. Link to post
colleenp Posted July 3, 2008 Author Share Posted July 3, 2008 My husband Frank still loves me and it never hurt our relationship.Luckily my step sons, 15 year Frank Jr and 14 year old Reese know how to treat me right with with respect,my husband taught them that not to ever harm a woman.My kick boxing sessions every Monday and Wendsday night 6:00 to 7:00 pm have helped too,have been doing this since I was 13 years old after my step dad got me into this.I do have a victims rights lawyer on my side and he said I can come to him talking about my rights as a victim. Link to post
hollygolightly Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 Hi! Welcome to AS ! I'm so sorry for what happened to you so recently. It is very understandable that you are still in shock, but the steps you've take are very brave and show what an amazing survivor you are! Best wishes, Holly Link to post
Attie Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 Welcome, I am glad your rapist is behind bars. I am also glad you have such support. We are here for you as well and will be behind you supporting you through the healing process. Link to post
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