New here

[speckledtoad]

Hey guys, im new to this website. Very desperate to know there are other people who may understand me. I've never really met one. But ive also never used a forum and dont know what im doing or how to interact. Any tips would be helpful

[MeBeMary]

Hi speckledtoad.

Welcome to AfterSilence. I'm very sorry for what brings you here but do know that this is a community filled with supportive and understanding people. What happened to you was wrong and undeserved. You are not alone.

It can be a little uneasy trying something new, so I am proud of you for doing so. The forum may feel big at the start, but it's not too complicated. Members can post about a variety of things, looking for support, encouragement, feedback and validation. Sometimes reading can be helpful, too, until you become comfortable enough to post more on your own. You can also reply to others, on things you relate to or just want to give another some general support or kindness. There is no right or wrong, as long as it's meant to be kind and respectful. 

Feel free to look around and jump in where and when you are ready. We are here for you.

Wishing you the best on this journey we call healing.

Mary

[awi]

 

Keeping you company during this part of your healing journey 

Edited October 16, 2025 by awi

[WannaMoveOn]

On 10/1/2025 at 1:40 AM, speckledtoad said:

Very desperate to know there are other people who may understand me. I've never really met one.

Hello there speckledtoad and welcome on board, I am Wanna

I understand that feeling right there. These types of traumas is not something you always get to talk about in real life. It can be hard to bring up and to know who to trust with it. AS invites all survivors to connect with our community. Here, you can post about basically anything, trauma related or just day-to-day life. You decide what to share and not. You own your story, and we believe you

I hope this community will contribute to your healing and give you the sense of a community. Please feel free to PM me or any staff member of choice with questions, requests for assistance with the site, or just for a little chat. We are here for you! 

So long, stay safe

// W 

Edited October 2, 2025 by WannaMoveOn