Shy and Lost

[Puddle]

Hi everyone    I'm Saoirse also go by Puddle.

finally taken the plunge and joined after putting it off for most the week.  I'm finding my self feeling really lost after becoming a mum for the second time. I'm  hoping finding this place will help me find my self 

[awi]

@Puddle Welcome to this safe place

[ActivistAlly]

Hi @Puddle 

I'm sorry you have been feeling lost and I hope AfterSilence (AS) can be of help to you as you search to find yourself.

[MeBeMary]

Hi Saorise/Puddle and welcome.

I am very sorry for the trauma you've endure and the struggles you face. It was unfair and undeserved. I can image how things can be stirred up after the birth of a child. I'm sure your emotions were naturally already going all over, with all the changes, but if it also churned up childhood feelings...that would be understandable, too. 

Take your time and look around. Interact where you feel comfortable and know this community is here to support you. You are not alone!

Mary

[Puddle]

Thank you everyone so much the welcomes 

[ShyUnicorn]

On 8/13/2025 at 3:38 PM, Puddle said:

I'm finding my self feeling really lost after becoming a mum for the second time.

Hi Puddle,

Congratulations on becoming a mum again! I struggled with postpartum psychosis after becoming a mum the first time around. It nothing to take lightly. 
Please know that you are not alone, even when you are lost. 
💐ShyUnicorn

 

[Puddle]

ohh thank you for the reply !