Intro

[hvs101]

hi this is my intro to my blog as a newbie. I’m dealing with my trauma that occurred at the ages of 14,15, and 16. i was Sexually assaulted by a friend as well as groomed by a teacher, and a few other men along the way. I’ve ignored it for years but going back to therapy has made me recognize the cause of many of my mental health issues now. I just feel really lonely with the after affects of assault and grooming. I still have nightmares about my teacher and still freak out about 85% of the time with sex. I just Really have been looking for a community that understands what it’s like to have traumatic things happen to you, it feels super lonely feeling like I’m the only one. But this is just my intro, i hope To connect with you all! -hvs 

[Finchy]

Welcome to AS @hvs101. I'm glad you found your way here. You're in the right place to find support and really wonderfully kind people that understand what you're going through. You're not alone. I'm sorry for what you've been through. Grooming and being sexually assaulted at young ages...it's awful. It was cruel and undeserved, and absolutely not your fault. I hope that your being here will help. Take your time exploring the site, and post when and where you're comfortable. We're here for you!

-Finch

[MeBeMary]

Hi there hvs,

Welcome to AfterSilence. I am very sorry for what you experienced as a teen and beyond. It was unfair and undeserved. You have found a very supportive site with many understanding and kind members. Being able to relate and not to feel so alone is a big positive of reaching out. I am glad you have. 

Yes, I think many of us ignore the cause of all the struggles we have until we can't ignore it anymore. I took me many, many years to say...ok...that's why.  Recognizing and admitting the reason is a huge step. Reaching out is another...and I wish you many more forward steps as you begin to more forward down the path of healing. 

Mary

  

[hvs101]

thank you guys for all the kind words truly. it means so much ❤️

 

[WannaMoveOn]

6 hours ago, hvs101 said:

hi this is my intro to my blog as a newbie. I’m dealing with my trauma that occurred at the ages of 14,15, and 16. i was Sexually assaulted by a friend as well as groomed by a teacher, and a few other men along the way. I’ve ignored it for years but going back to therapy has made me recognize the cause of many of my mental health issues now. I just feel really lonely with the after affects of assault and grooming. I still have nightmares about my teacher and still freak out about 85% of the time with sex. I just Really have been looking for a community that understands what it’s like to have traumatic things happen to you, it feels super lonely feeling like I’m the only one. But this is just my intro, i hope To connect with you all! -hvs 

Welcome to After Silence! I am Wanna

I am sincerely sorry that you have been hurt this way, for the trauma and pain that it has caused you. It was not your fault, please know we believe you. 

This is a safe place to start out your healing journey, our members are kind and emphatic. You can share in the pace and amount that suits you the best, knowing one is not alone can help a lot. 

I hope you find this site helpful, you can post about anything, would it be trauma-related or just about plain life. You can reach out any time to me or any staff with questions and thoughts. 

I am so happy you found us, seems like you have been carrying a heavy luggage by yourself for too long. We are here for you!

Stay safe, 

Wanna ☀️ 

[8888]

Welcome @hvs101 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me.