Hi, I’m new

[SnowOwl]

Hi,

I’m new to this. I don’t actually really know how forums work. But I’ve realized I need to start talking about my past traumas because they’ve been bubbling up the past couple of years. The traumas I’ve suffered as a child, I’ve never told anybody. 10 years ago I told a boyfriend in general that I was abused and he seemed freaked out about it. But I can’t hold this inside anymore. Hoping to share my traumas and find others who have been through similar. 

 

Thanks for listening. 

[Poppy_]

Hi, @SnowOwl - 

Welcome to After Silence! Forums can be tricky when you first start using them, but it gets easier the more you do it. As you look around, it will help to kind of see how everyone uses them   I'm sorry for the trauma you endured and for the way that boyfriend reacted when you told him - that's not okay. I know it's hard when you feel there's no one you can talk to and no one will understand. You've come to a good place to share your experiences and gain support! I'm hoping you will start feeling better after becoming a part of this community   

If you need help with the boards or anything else, please send me a message! I'm here for anything you need. 

Best wishes,
Poppy

[marcyabadeer]

@SnowOwl welcome! its nice to meet you. i am sorry for the pain that brought you here; but we look forward to getting to know you.

we are here to help each other heal.

sam

[snmls]

Hi @SnowOwl

Welcome to AS. I'm sorry for the trauma in your life that brought you here, but I'm glad you found the site and decided to join. This is a safe space and we are all here to support each other. Holding on to trauma can be hard, but it is never too late to begin opening up and start the healing process. There is no timeline for healing. Sharing and connecting with other survivors can be helpful to see that you are not alone in this. You are welcome to post and share on this site whenever you feel comfortable. I hope you find this site to be as helpful as I do. 

[patriciag]

Welcome to AS, you will find support here and others who understand. 

Thank you 

[MeBeMary]

8 hours ago, SnowOwl said:

Hi,

I’m new to this. I don’t actually really know how forums work. But I’ve realized I need to start talking about my past traumas because they’ve been bubbling up the past couple of years. The traumas I’ve suffered as a child, I’ve never told anybody. 10 years ago I told a boyfriend in general that I was abused and he seemed freaked out about it. But I can’t hold this inside anymore. Hoping to share my traumas and find others who have been through similar. 

 

Thanks for listening. 

Hi SnowOwl.

Welcome to AS. I am very sorry for the trauma you endured as a child, but do you know that you have found a very supportive site. Our members are kind and understanding. You are not alone. Take your time to look around and jump in when you were ready. I am happy you have reached out and wish you the best on your healing journey.

Mary

[missfrier]

Dear snow owl

Welcome to After Silence.  I am sorry to hear of the trauma you have been through!

Being here has helped me so much.   Everyone is so caring and supportive here.  I am proud of you for reaching out.  I know that is hard to do.  I also know that you will find that needed compassion and support here within our community.  Know we are here for you and we will listen whenever you would like to lean on us.    

Take care and please do not hesitate to ask for any help if you ever need it.  

[8888]

Welcome @SnowOwl to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

[Maya20]

Hi snowowl I am new on here too at at the beginning of my journey. This is a lovely supportive place x

[Patti72]

Hi snowowl, welcome to AS.  This is a very safe and caring place.

Take care, Patti

[Cmw195]

Hi and welcome! Always here to listen and talk. 

[Struggling88]

Hi, Snow Owl, and welcome!