Confused and desparate for guideance (new)

[Bobs25]

Hi I don't know if this is the write place to talk but for months now I have desparate to talk to people who may understand me. All I can say is I am a victim and a family of a perpatrater is it ok to talk here

Bobs25

[missfrier]

  Dear Bobs25

Welcome to After Silence.  I am sorry to hear of the trauma you have been through!

Being here has helped me so much.   Everyone is so caring and supportive here.  I am proud of you for reaching out.  I know that is hard to do.  I also know that you will find that needed compassion and support here within our community.  Know we are here for you and we will listen whenever you would like to lean on us.    

Take care and please do not hesitate to ask for any help if you ever need it.
 

[Bobs25]

Thank you missfrier for taking the time to listen to me. I am so use to being denied or called faker and drama queen so being acknowledged is wonderful

[Poppy_]

Hi, @Bobs25 - 

Welcome to After Silence! I'm sorry for what you've gone through and the circumstances that brought you here. I want you to know that this site is absolutely an okay place to share what you wish. This is a safe space to talk. If you're wanting to share your story, there is a forum called Share Your Story that will unlock after you've reached 10 posts. Those posts can be topics you create or responses to others. If you're looking to get your post count up quickly, the Humor and Silliness forum is an easy way to do that! 

Again, I'm so sorry for what you endured.I hope that you can find some peace and healing here. Feel free to share when you feel ready - we will all be here to support you! 

Hugs and well wishes,
Poppy

[MeBeMary]

Hi Bobs25,

Welcome to AfterSilence. I am sorry for what you have gone thru, but you have found a very supportive community. Your trauma and struggles are completely validated here. I am sorry you have people who do not understand or believe you. You are not alone. It is one of the hardest parts of healing, but you will not find that here. You are accepted here. Take your time to look around and jump in when you are ready. I wish you the very best as you walk your path of healing.

Mary

 

[8888]

Welcome @Bobs25 to After Silence.  I’m sorry for what brought you here but I’m happy you are here reaching out for support.  Good job taking this step in your healing process.  You are not alone and what happened to you wasn’t your fault.  Most of our forums are only visible to registered members (all of them except for the ones you see before you log in) and everyone here uses an anonymous username so as long as your abuser doesn't have access to your computer or whatever device you are posting from it is safe to post here.  Take your time exploring and post when you are ready.  If you have any questions feel free to message me. 

[Struggling88]

Hi, Bobs25, and welcome!