Newbie!

[Punky5]

Hi everybody… Newbie here!

Very recently went thru some difficult stuff in my life! Even though i usually don't like to open up and show that i'm hurting... Talking to a friend that has dealt with difficult things thru out his life has shown me that it isn't wrong to talk and be vulnerable sometimes! So looking around for ways to deal with my pain i found this group and thought i could give it a try.... Really hoping that i can get the help i need here... Looking forward to it!!

[patriciag]

Hi Punky, sorry you went through some difficult stuff in your life. I understand how hard it is to open up. Take your time to get to know the site and when you are ready to share we will be there for you.

Patricia

[chant2012]

9 hours ago, Punky5 said:

Hi everybody… Newbie here! 

Very recently went thru some difficult stuff in my life! Even though i usually don't like to open up and show that i'm hurting... Talking to a friend that has dealt with difficult things thru out his life has shown me that it isn't wrong to talk and be vulnerable sometimes! So looking around for ways to deal with my pain i found this group and thought i could give it a try.... Really hoping that i can get the help i need here... Looking forward to it!!

Hello _______. Welcome to AS! It is my wish that you find this site as helpful and healing as I have in my healing journey. 

I am part of the NST (Newbie Support Team). What that means is that I (or any of the mods/admins/NST) can help/direct you as you learn how to use the forums. Should you have questions, feel free to send a PM to any one of the AS staff. 

You've taken a huge step in reaching out. This is a big step in healing from abuse of any kind. Take all the time you need in sharing. 

Know that you are not alone. I'm sorry for what's brought you here but am sure you will find the support you so desire. 

Am listening and validating you and your experiences. 

Here is a link to the board guidelines and rules: 
http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.php?s=5c8b6bf0f3f95bcc2f076d1d105a1719&showtopic=194#entry685

Here is a link regarding some privacy/safety issues that are helpful:
http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.php?s=5c8b6bf0f3f95bcc2f076d1d105a1719&showtopic=27269#entry218846

Sending healing energy your way. 

~Chantel~

[MeBeMary]

Hi Punky,

Welcome to AS. I am very sorry that you have experienced trauma. It's not fair that you have been hurt.  You will find this a very supportive site with many kind and understanding members.  I kept everything inside before coming to this site, but have found that I do have a voice by being here. I hope you are able to find yours.  I wish you well on your healing journey.

Mary