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rick_m
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thank you all for the welcome. I am just trying to see another path and looking to see how others have managed these events past and present in order to adjust my own ways in helping her
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Hello, married 15 years to a wife who experienced SA before i met her. I was the first one she told this to. I am joining to share our emotions and situations if thats a thing to do, or to chat how our marriage has evolved. I think joining here is my wife of getting out of the vacuum we have lived in with each other and seeing how others have managed this process. through ups and downs we love each other and through changing dynamics i am there for her as best as she allows.
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In my wife case i felt she was trapped in a cycle of knowing she was in a bad situation and also not knowing any better was out there for her. That cycle of then meeting the abusers behavior or intensity in a relationship seems to blur the lines of the victim being able to break away as the relationship becomes their entire world. it was almost as if neither one could break the cycle of being in a downward spiral