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Rachal1

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  1. After sitting outside if the hospital for over an hour, I am now home. I couldn’t go in, could not go through with the examination. It is so hard, I thought that I was strong enough, turns out, not yet. 😔😔

    1. AKB

      AKB

      I'm so sorry @Rachal1. Sitting with you to support you if you'd like some company.

    2. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Oh dear. I'm so sorry. I can't imagine the fear and pain you've been going through. Sending you strength and comfort. ❤️ Maybe you will feel stronger for an examination later on. We're all here for you!

  2. Have to visit the hospital today for a check up...not looking forward to it at all. So scared 😔

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    2. Rachal1

      Rachal1

      Yes, that is why I am going. Injuries need checking. 😔

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      I know, I just wanted to ask since I hope the staff understands your situation. 

    4. Rachal1

      Rachal1

      Thank you for your support. It is going to be awful, I know it. I am so nervous. 

  3. Really struggling. Court date set. 

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    2. Rachal1

      Rachal1

      @WannaMoveOn yes. The investigation has not needed much as there is so much evidence. There is strong forensic evidence and the men made videos, which the police have. The videos are quite graphic and show everything. There are also documents that have been sent from person to person, mobile phone records and much more. The court date is not for another 5 weeks so there is still a long way to go. 

    3. Rachal1

      Rachal1

      @mini.finch Thank you. I hope you are ok? Xx

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      5 weeks can be long if one has to wait. If you're having so much evidence, then I'll suggest you're letting your lawyer taking the lead and just nurse yourself the best you can, physically and emotionally. You are doing so much. Sending my best support, and if you'd like one, a safe hug :hug:

  4. Absolute meltdown. Committal hearing done. Getting very real.  

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    2. Rachal1

      Rachal1

      @mini.finch Thank you. I don’t feel brave....xx

    3. Rachal1

      Rachal1

      @WannaMoveOn thank you. It is just so daunting. 
      I agreed to attend and give evidence and I do still want to do that, it is just getting very real now..xx

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @Rachal1 Yes, and perhaps you were still in shock and now this is added to your plate. Please keep your support system close and take one day at the time. You are so brave. 

      -  W ☀️

  5. Crumbling. I want to withdraw my statement and pull out of court. 💔😢

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    2. Celia

      Celia

      You're a very strong and confident girl.  You got this!  We are all with you as well for support :hug:

      ~Celia 🌺♥️

    3. Rachal1

      Rachal1

      @Celia @mini.finch 

      Hi, 

      thanks for the support. I am just so scared. More details have come through  and it has made me want to run an absolute mile..xx

    4. Celia

      Celia

      I'm so sorry.  Be strong 🤗🌺

  6. Feeling so down. Head is just flooded with thoughts 😣

    1. jazz101

      jazz101

      Heya , sitting with you if you want me two . I hope things eases up soon ❤

  7. Someone to talk to needed.....

    1. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Hey you! I'm here for a bit

       

    2. Anonymity please

      Anonymity please

      Hey Rachal1. 

      I'm available  and here to support you. :)

       

      Anonymity 💚

  8. Pocket riders needed today. So so nervous 💔😔

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    2. Field8

      Field8

      Hoping in

    3. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Pocket riding with you!!

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Count me in. Sending you a clover for luck 🍀

  9. I just can’t keep up with all of these feelings..😔💔

    1. Celia

      Celia

      I understand it's hard.  Many emotions at once can really tear a person down and leave them depressed.  Please try to be strong though.  You are an amazingly tough girl.  You got this!!  Everyone is here with you, we'll always be here by your side, and we're even open to just chat. 

      I'm going through things right now as well, so trust me, I understand all the feelings and complicated thoughts that flood your head every second of every minute of every hour of every day.  You're not alone!! 

      Sitting with you and hugs too :hug:

      ~Celia

  10. Horrible, horrible afternoon...💔

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    2. Celia

      Celia

      I'm so sorry. 🥺🥺 Sitting with you as well, some hugs too! :hug:

    3. Anonymous4

      Anonymous4

      Hope you're ok, sitting with you if it helps

    4. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Oh dear. I'm so sorry this afternoon was terrible. :( Sitting with you and sending safe hugs. :console:

  11. Support needed today 💔😔😢

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    2. Rachal1

      Rachal1

      @Free2Fly  Thank you so much. Virtual hugs needed today 💔

    3. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      No problem , hope stuff gets better.

    4. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Sending hugs and support. :hug:  

  12. Sat in the hospital 😔💔 Today is a hard day....thank you for the support..

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    2. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      No problem, hope stuff gets better for you.

      Sitting with you if okay?

    3. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      *safe hugs* I hope things go ok at the hospital. You're very brave right now.

    4. Rachal1

      Rachal1

      @Free2Fly @mini.finch Thank you both ❤️

  13. Hi @8888 Thank you. Today is a hard day...
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