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Welcome @siona Everyone is really supportive and friendly here. I am sure you will feel right at home ❤️ x

Welcome!! Everyone is lovely here, I hope you feel at home and start your journey to healing. I am also in my 30's and female x

Hi, sorry for your experience. You will find tons of support here and everyone is lovely. Also - Good luck in your journey x JJJ

Thank you 8888. I am happy to drop a message to you.

Hi 8888 and thank you. I don't understand this guy's problem. Every time I'm due to sign in to start my shift he turns up mere minutes after - and when I stay on for the later shifts he too stays on with me through Skype. It's just freaky. I like him personally and I would like to think that he simply just likes me, just that it seems to be more obsessive. I spoke to other people and they say to me "he finds you attractive", "he likes you", "why don't you talk to the guy and go on a date?" If anything were to happen between us, it'd be as friends - I don't want to break my wedding vo

Thank you Gold Raindrops! :)xx

Thank you Finch. Yes, we have an external reporting system I can use. I am off sick with depression - not just from this but also from family problems and my husband and I actually considered starting divorce proceedings going back a month ago because he felt that I would actually leave him for this person. But this person socially drinks, is into sports, is very blunt at times and swears a lot. He holds very biased opinions on LGBT issues/rights and I have heard him talk about the friends we're friends with behind their backs. I don't think that's the sort of person I want to be wi

Hi there Mary and thank you for your kind words. It has been hard for me to accept in the past - I don’t have much in the way of life skills and i didn’t meet my now-husband through flirting...so I find men acting like the way this guy is as strange. i think I will report him. JJJ xxx

Hi there Capulet, thank you for the warm welcome. Yes it’s very difficult. I care about the guy as a friend because he took me off to chat to me during a period I needed comfort - unfortunately he overstepped boundaries with me by squishing his body right into mine and I was almost on his lap! I do like to think his heart is in the right place and I’m guessing I’m kind of naive too, but when I put all his other past actions together...I can’t see his behaviour as anything innocuous. I loved working as a social worker because I just love to help people. But my physical illnesses

Hi missfrier, thanks so much for the warm welcome! Hugs back to you xx I have been wanting to reach out to as many support networks as possible, just to get my head around this man's behaviour at work. At first I thought, does he like me? But when he'd been asking my friends questions about where I worked in the building, my name, the hours I work, who my manager was, where I lived...it then started to sound dodgy. It's not the fact he potentially likes me that bothers me. I don't mind people liking me, be them man or woman - but it's the nature of the questions he's been asking my f

Hi, My name is pretty long to type so please just call me JJJ. I am 35 years old, female and have been married for coming up to 3 years. I was sexually groomed and assaulted when I was 15 - it happened abroad. It did not progress to sex since I refused to go along with the man who was abusing me. I was sexually assaulted again by an elderly client in his own home. I was his social worker. The first time he did it he apologised and so I let it go but he did it a second time and I had to report him. I felt like my care agency blamed me for it. I just didn't feel too good af