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mini.finch

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  1. Welcome to AS, @Shorkiemom! I'm glad you found your way here. It's tough to navigate new places, but so far, you've done well in posting in this forum! I'm so sorry, though, for what you've been through that led you here. You didn't deserve any of it. It wasn't your fault. I'm also sorry you suffer from various side effects from your trauma. So awful. You'll find a lot of supportive and friendly people here. You're not alone! I wish you all the best in healing. Take your time exploring the forum. ❤️ -Finch
  2. Welcome to AS, @Trauma_Unknown! We are glad that you found us, too. I'm so sorry though for what you've been through. You didn't deserve it, and you aren't at fault. After 20 years of silence, you are now ready to open up and start healing. You'll find a lot of kind and supportive people here that will help. ❤️ Best wishes to you! -Finch
  3. Thank you for sharing this @feralcat!
  4. Sending support to those in need. *hands out support and cookies* 🍪

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    2. WendyAlone

      WendyAlone

      ❤️ 

    3. 8888

      8888

      Thank you, I’ll steal one of those star cookies.

    4. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      They do look nice 😋

  5. Welcome to AS, @irisbun! I'm glad you found your way here. I'm sorry for what you've experienced, though, that's led you here. I'm also sorry that summer is the hardest time of the year for you...I can totally relate. Spring and summer for me are very triggering seasons. It really sucks. I'm hoping that your being here will help. You've definitely come to the right place. There's a lot of supportive and kind people here, all happy to help. Best wishes! -Finch
  6. Welcome to After Silence, @zhongli! I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm terribly sorry for what you've experienced that brought you here. You did not deserve what happened to you. And you also don't deserve to have to deal with your abuser daily. I, too, still live with my abuser (a family member), so I can relate. It's very difficult. I'm glad that you have supportive friends. It's so hard to open up and talk about what you've been through, so I commend you for doing that with them. And for doing that with us. ❤️ You're not alone. You'll find lots of kind and supportive people
  7. Struggling with anxiety and self-hate gremlins today...*shakes fist* 😩

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      :punch: I'm usually non-violent, but I'd like to punch anyone's gremlins away! :punch:  

    2. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Thank you for the well-intended violence, @MeBeMary!! :lol: I could definitely use it against those gremlins. :hammer:

  8. mini.finch

    Hi

    Welcome to AS, @SassyP! I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm terribly sorry for what you've been through that led you here. You didn't deserve any of what happened to you. I'm so sorry for your traumas. Your intro was perfectly fine...I know how hard it is to first open up in someplace new. Thank you for joining. You'll find a lot of really caring and supportive people here. It's a great way to help you on the path to healing. ❤️ Self-care is not easy to do sometimes, but I'm glad you now realize how much you need it. We're all here to help! Best wishes! -Finch
  9. hey @mini.finch, I'd love some advice from you on my relationships/friendships drama. Thanks!

    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Sure! In this topic? 

       

       

    2. Naiwen

      Naiwen

      yeah please, it's urgent. 

  10. Welcome to AS, @TeaganMT. I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm terribly sorry for the abuse you've suffered. My brother was also my abuser, so I can relate there...same with things being blurry. You're not alone. I'm sorry that you're not getting support from your mom...she should be there for you in times of need. But we are all here for you. Trust me, you'll find a lot of really supportive and kind people here. Sending you strength and support! -Finch
  11. Welcome to AS, @miss_read! I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm terribly sorry for what you've experienced to lead you here. That is awesome you saw a therapist for the first time today. Therapy can be really helpful. I hope that you find it to be a big help to you...it's difficult, and healing is a long process, but I'm proud of you for taking the first steps. ❤️ You'll find a lot of really kind and supportive people here. Best wishes! -Finch
  12. Welcome to AS, @Maksim! I'm glad you found your way here. We've all experienced different things...none of our stories and pasts are the same. So it's ok that what you went through was a little different! We're all happy to help. Being in a gray area can be confusing, but there's nothing wrong with that. I hope that your time here will be helpful to you in figuring things out. Best wishes! -Finch
  13. Welcome to AS, @CurlyK! I'm glad you found your way here, though I'm terribly sorry for what you've experienced that led you here. You'll find a lot of really supportive and friendly people in this community. You're not alone. ❤️ I'm sorry again for what you've been through...but that is good you find talking about it helps. Talking about your trauma can be very difficult but also therapeutic, so I'm proud of you. Take your time exploring the site. Best wishes! -Finch
  14. Welcome to AS, @ThornedRose! I'm so glad that you made your way here and that you already feel glad to be here! That is awesome. You're on the path to healing, which is a difficult journey...I'm sorry for whatever you've gone through, but you're not alone in this. You'll find a lot of very kind and supportive people here. ❤️ Take your time exploring. Best wishes! -Finch
  15. Hope your doing okay today mini , safe hugs :hug:if ok?

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    2. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Thank you mini, honestly right now I could use the help but I really don't think I'm worth anyone's time.

    3. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      It's worth YOUR time though, to get the help. And that's what matters most @Free2Fly. You are worth your time. You are worth other people's time, too. You're worthy. ❤️ I forget, do you have a therapist? 

    4. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Thank you mini, idk sometimes.

      It's pretty hard to get a t for our kind of trauma, most only do depression or anxiety which is quite sad :(

       

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