I can totally relate to this topic. I am 26, I have been in therapy for about eight years off and on and I am still working through things. Sometimes I feel like I should be over it too. One thing that comforts me is knowing that the process of healing from sexual abuse is one that ebbs and flows. Sometimes in my life I feel competent, healthy and like the past is behind me. Other times, I feel like what happened is taking over my life, causing so much pain and fear that I can't control it. Things always seem to shift back to me being ok again, so I try to take comfort in knowing that.