This!!! I was chomping at the bit to get my registration complete because as I was reading, I felt this statement so much! I too am a victim of my father and I not a night goes by where I don't have some kind of flashback or don't sleep well, etc. I am also constantly struggling to be intimate with my husband and I struggle with feelings of shame when I like something that was tied to my abuse. It's hard. And the more I've chosen to deal with these issues, the more and more I have flashbacks, nightmares, intimacy issues, etc. It's like I'm being punished all over again for actually coming forw