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WannaMoveOn

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  1. Last shift before I go on vacation! Yay 🏖️ Also, I F I N A L L Y will get vaccinated tomorrow, first shot. 

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    2. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Yay! I hope your vacation is a great one, and that your vaccine will go smoothly. ❤️ Happy for you!

    3. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Enjoy your vacation. 😎 

    4. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      That's great news, I'm still waiting on my next shot but shouldn't be long now, but yeah sounds great 👍

  2. Talked to my step father today about my birth father. I described a few things he did every day when I was a kid, and step daddy thinks it was ugly and mind controlling. My inner child woke up with this, telling me she thought it was ugly too. I try to resonate about how birth father could have acted instead. 

    I have eaten oat and raisin cookies, with a side of tea and water melon, and will now try to find a bicycle shop to fix my wheel. 

    Hope everyone has a lovely day

    - W ☀️ 

    1. AKB

      AKB

      This sounds like some great healing progress! Sending you lots of rainbows and unicorns! 💜

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @AKB I'll open a window so they can fly inside. 

  3. Today, I woke up rather late, after talking to my mourning bf at 1 am last night. He's coping well though. I have mixed the day with computer binge and chores. I've done my dishes, walked the dog, looked out for the cat, showered and just put three loads of laundry in the machines.  When I've finished them, I'll probably go grocery shopping. 

    Anyone else having exciting plans today? 🥳

    1. tuliptorn

      tuliptorn

      Sorry for your bf loss. Please remember to self care emotionally and physically. 

      I am traveling to meet a friend. Other than than that idk.

      Safe hugs.

  4. By boyfriend's grandfather passed away earlier tonight. My bf called me crying. He is now with his parents. I am just so sad for him. This grandfather took the place of his biological father in many ways, always looking out for him as a boy. They did say their goodbyes earlier this summer, but my bf really hoped seeing him just once more. 

    :candle:

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    2. Capulet

      Capulet

      I'm so sorry, Wanna. :(  

    3. Field8

      Field8

      I’m so sorry

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @snmls @Capulet @Field8 Thank you guys. He was high of age and probably wanted to get rejoined with his late wife. It went peacefully, however, as they say, the price of love is loss. Even though I never met him, i have understood that many people cared for him. I appreciate your kind words. 

       

  5. I just biked home and fed my summer cat. I did my 4 hour shift at the charity store and then treated myself with some junk food and ice in town. I don't think about calories this much these days. Being in summer and all, I want to enjoy myself and not speculate too much about my body. 

    What else? T session tomorrow. Hope everyone is well. 

    - W ☀️

    1. snmls

      snmls

      Glad you treated yourself. We all deserve it sometimes. 

  6. I finally did that Bubble and Squeaks. You usually do it of leftovers, but I cook it from scratch since I seldom have boiled potatoes as leftovers. I really recommend it. I threw in some mashed carrots as well. 

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    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @BrightSide Do you have a side of eggs or sausages for your Bubble and Squeaks? 

    3. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      I've never heard of this before! Now I need to look it up. I bet it's yummy!

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch It's a nice way to get vegetables in your system, and to mash up those left over ingredients. 

  7. I have taken my "summer cat" outside for a while. Her owner doesn't want her to stroll unleashed when she lives with me, so I put her lead around my wrist and sat down in the grass. I usually bring a book, and of course this furry friend would walk across the pages with her soaked paws. 

    I still feel heck nervous about starting uni soon. I tell myself that I have all I need, and that there is no point to start studying hard core in my last time of rest. 

    I will go to my volunteer shift soon,  and then i have counseling over video after work. 

    Wishing you a best day

    - W ☀️ 

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    2. AKB

      AKB

      I wish I had a "summer cat" or really a cat again. I understand about taking kitties for walks too - my girl Sasha always wanted to explore and helpfully walk upon whatever I happened to be reading! You have done so much healing work and I know you will be ready to go back to Uni when it's time to do so. I also would recommend enjoying the most splendid time of the year when there is loads of sunshine and summer fun to be enjoyed! Perhaps you make like your "summer cat" and enjoy yourself as much as possible before you return to Uni?

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch Thanks Finch. Lately, I have decided that I will create a minimum work ethic that is actually maintainable. That would be attending all of my classes and rehears 1-2 minutes a day + 3 minutes of what I did last week. Not that I skipped classes last year, but I got overwhelmed.

      I have learned that if you create a smart schedule, you can harvest a lot of free time. Also I've learned, that every person has their own window of productivity. Some get just as much done in 4 hours and some in 6 hours, BUT working beyond that tolerance window can do more harm than good. Meaning, I will find what window works best for me and stick to that the best I can. 

      Stay excellent 

      - W ☀️

       

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @AKB Awn. I can kind of relate. I went from zero pets in the household to my roomie's dog and this temporary cat. They are a hand full, but you just start getting attached despite stolen shoes and scratched skin. 

      Yesh, I spoil myself quite a bit. I spontaneously read some chemistry when I feel like it, but really, I have all fall to do that. Chemistry doesn't start until November for me. 

      It really helps that you value the time I've been spending healing. People ask me what I do for a living or what major I am taking. I am like "well, 2021 was a strange year". I don't want to tell anyone I've done CBT and learned how to take naps. 

      Yes, my summer cat is a life guru. She spends like 10 hours/day on the couch, attacks whatever bothers her (the dog or me), and enjoys her food. 

      Stay excellent 

      - W ☀️

  8. My boss mailed me today. I will have 3 volunteer shifts a week, and in exchange I'll receive wide training and a reference by the end of the summer. I did not want the pressure of a paid job, even if I applied to some and failed. I believe this is better, so I have something to do but still space to develop and heal. 

  9. So apparently there was a man sneaking around my campus yesterday. He has been peeping in windows and following two different girls, asking them private questions and offering rides. One of the female students contacted the police.  This was at the bright day in the afternoon. What is wrong with people? I am happy I'm going away for a few days. 

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    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch So this has allegedly been going on since 2016. If he ever peeps through my windows, I'll just take a picture, close the curtains and call the cops. 

    3. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      That's a good plan. I hope that the cops take this seriously and arrest him. *safe hugs*

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch safe, fuzzy hugs! 

  10. Fever and symptoms finally wearing off. Taking a slow weekend so I'll be ready for my internship next week. Also, I will be having a cat at my place for a few weeks as I signed up for "baby sitting" it. I'll see it as my summer support animal. 😺

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Aww that's nice , glad you have a cat to offer you support ☺️.

      Safe hugs :hug:if ok?

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @Free2Fly Hey Free, appreciate you checking in :) Guess a cyber hug is safe. 

    3. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Hey @WannaMoveOn, no problem glad to hear the symptoms are wearing off.

      Yeah no problem, some more for ya :hug: :hug: :hug:( their all cyber hugs)

  11. I having my "honey moon phase" with my fever right now. It usually raises in the evening, peaks in the middle of the night and declines during the early morning hours. The afternoon is my best time, even though I need to be careful and rest as well. I did some chores and finally managed to eat a proper meal. With a little luck, my antibiotics kick in today, or sometime tomorrow. 

  12. Hello everybody, especially thus patientally waiting for my response on DM:s or contents. 

    I have not forgotten about you, I am just sick. I will be for some more time according to my doctor. Do not worry, I have my fridge stocked, all medication I need and will only get better from here. 

    I just wanted to inform you so I don't come off as purposely distant. I am just fully occupied to eat ice cream, sleeping and keeping my mum updated. 

    All best

    - W ☀️

    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Sending you strength and healing vibes!! I'm glad you're all stocked up to recover. I hope you get all well soon. ❤️ Don't worry about anything else...just focus on getting better!

  13. Still sick, going to a doctor tomorrow. Hope I didn't take that covid-test too early. 

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    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      I hope so too, @mini.finch ❤️ 

    3. Anonymous4

      Anonymous4

      Get well soon ❤

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @Anonymous4 Working on it, this is a long one. 

  14. Cold showers and ice pops - anything to keep my fever down. I suspect glandular fever...  🤧

    1. Free2Fly

      Free2Fly

      Hope you feel better soon.

    2. Field8

      Field8

      Feel better 

    3. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Oh no, sorry you have a fever! I hope you feel better soon!!

  15. Second session today went well, but I think I gave my new help a lot of work to do. This is a Christian treatment, it involves praying and strengthening your relationship to God. My help said she'll probably have to pray a while and even do one day of fasting so she can give me her best feedback, since I basically told her my entire childhood and the beginning of my adolescence in one session.  She told me I did a good job though and that you can tell I am used to talk with professionals. :) 

    She's a super sweet lady with a lot of wisdom to offer, and she is also professionally educated. 

    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      I'm glad that it went well! :) She sounds very nice and very helpful. I've not heard of a treatment like this before...very intriguing. I hope that it goes well, and your help continues to be supportive and helpful to you! I'm so proud of you for opening up like you did!

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch Thank you! It's alright, she is also treating my bf so I know her concept. I am a Christian but very informed on when treatments involving Christian acts can turn dysfunctional, so I am trusting my gut. 

      Have a nice one, so proud of you too Finch! 

       

  16. I dont't have covid! Yay! :yahoo:@MeBeMary @mini.finch

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    2. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      YAY!!! So happy for you!!! :party: What a relief!

    3. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Relieved. I know it's what they always check, if your feeling under the weather, but glad it was ruled out! Hope that you are feeling back to yourself soon. :flowers:

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @MeBeMary Awn, you brought me a flower. Yes, I am perfectly well now. I think moving places and adjusting just knocked me out for a few days. I spent some time in bed eating ice pops and watching Netflix. Turns out it was a good cure :) 

  17. Took a covid test today. The nurse was very kind and let me pass on the nose test and just took saliva. I don't know how other countries do, but in Sweden they take samples from deep in your nose and it's very unpleasant. We will have simple spit-tests as off next week though. Just hoping I'm not sick since I am finally having social activities coming up after months upon months of distancing. 

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Had a test the beginning of the year. Had that nose swab, and yes. Very unpleasant. Hoping it is a negative result tho. Want you healthy, Wanna. :throb:  

    2. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      I hope that the test result will be negative, Wanna. 🤗 I'm glad that the nurse was understanding and kind about that! 

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @MeBeMary @mini.finch You guys are so sweet. I'll know today or tomorrow. It would really be a bummer to be sick now. Stay healthy you too guys! Vaccination's just around the corner by now, unless you've already got it ofc. As I am young and have no medical issues, I'll get mine probably by the end of the summer. 

  18. I feel really hot and tired today. Not sure why since I am not having a fever. I'll finish my dinner and then take a nice cool shower. I will also get ready to leave sometime this week. My boyfriend's grandfather is on his way of passing now, and my bf wants me to come stay after that it happened. I am very sorry for him, since his grandpa means a lot to him, but it's also heart warming that he'd like me to stay with him in the state of grief. 

    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      How are you feeling now? I hope you're doing better. ❤️ Aww, I'm sorry to hear his grandfather is passing. But it's very meaningful that he wants you to be with him during this time. Sending you, your bf, and his family lots of support.

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Thank you @mini.finch I am not as hot, but I'll probably take things slow today as well. It's quite up and down with his grandfather at the moment, but at least him and his mom made it to the senior home now in case this is it.Yes, I would have respected if he needed space, but I was relieved to know that he finds my company that supporting. 

      How are things with you Finch? :) 

    3. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      I'm glad you're not feeling as hot. It's a good idea though to take things slow. *hugs* I'm so glad you're there for him and that he feels comfortable having you there for support. ❤️ 

      Things are meh lol. I don't want to ramble/vent too much and bother you. :P Basically not great, but I'm doing what I can to stabilize.

  19. My new roommate attempted to steal a pair of my stockings today! Luckily I caught her in the act. She was so cute though, I couldn't get mad. Her owner was amused too. 

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    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

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      @AKB @mini.finch Presentation of evidence 

    3. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Aww!! What an evil, adorable, monster! I LOVE this thief. :lol: Guilty, guilty! Of being cute!

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finchshe also went snacking at 2 am last night, her chewing was unavoidable. She's so sneaky and cuddly! 

  20. I believe all these hours of therapy sessions and investigation is finally kicking off. I am snacking more, fruits and a cookie or two, I am napping more and I am taking more breaks.

    Previously, I was in an evil circle of hyper activity until I broke down and was in low mode for months, then picked myself up and repeated the process. I am breaking tasks into bits more now, and I am questioning myself when I realize I am making too big plans again. 

     

  21. I´ve cleaned out my part of the apartment, packed everything and got my furniture delivered to my dorm room today. The student's association were nice and let me move in early as I am having a guaranteed spot in the fall. I have plenty of more space and storage area now, and the rent is basically the same as this place. I have two new roommates. One is in vet school and the other one has four paws and a very moving tail. 🐾

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    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @behindthesehazeleyes You did? Well, that's nice to know since I don't know too many considering a degree within agricultural science. I believe there will be lots of developing within efficiency of agriculture, alternative indoors farming and urban agriculture. I'd like to jump on that train and help finding ways to provide a growing global population with food and as well make crops more nutritious. 

    3. behindthesehazeleyes

      behindthesehazeleyes

      That’s awesome!

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @behindthesehazeleyes Yes, I feel very lucky. Just hoping therapy will do it's work so I can focus a bit better ^^ but I am feeling optimistic and much more centered about this now. 

  22. Wrapping, packing, boxing... wrapping, packing boxing! I am only cleaning out my room, what will it be that day I get my own apartment, with own furniture? Guess what I'll do at work tomorrow? Wrapping, packing, boxing... I work in the the storage section, taking donated items in and sorting them. Boyee, I could qualify for Santa's Little Helper soon! 

    1. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Wanna, official Santa's Little Helper! How cute! You're a hard worker! Good luck with all of that!

    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch Thank Thee! It's scary how my belongings, fitting in one room, requires nearly 10 boxes, and then none of the furniture is mine. 

  23. I volunteer worked for about 4 hours today, and had an interesting conversation with my boss. He is so nice and sympathetic, working everyday with employees who have their own struggle of trauma and rehabilitation. Also, a woman asked me if I'm pregnant since she found my extra belly layer being so firm.... hehe, what does one say to that? 

    Now I am home, waiting for my dinner roasting in the oven. There's vegan nuggets, beets, onion and potatoes. We have this holiday called "Valborgsmässafton" in Sweden today, where we are supposed to celebrate spring with a huge fire. This year though, people are adviced to celebrate from home and only with family.  

    Happy Friday, guys! 

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    2. Anonymous4

      Anonymous4

      Happy Friday! @WannaMoveOn Trevlig Valborg too! ☺

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @Anonymous4 Trevlig Valborg! Hoppas du får en bra kväll 😉 

    4. Anonymous4

      Anonymous4

      Tack! Ha en bra kväll du med! 😊 @WannaMoveOn

  24. I helped with online children's church this morning, went away with the waste sorting and then back home for a shower. I made rice and chicken for dinner. Tomorrow, I'll start to rehears some chemistry for uni in the fall. Hope everyone's okay. 

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    2. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @jazz101 yes, it's a nice way to apply yourself and get aware about the needs in society. 

    3. Anonymous4
    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      Well hello there @Anonymous4 How are you today?

  25. So yesterday, me and my bf were hitting it off with movie night.  We had crisps, candy, soda and pizza. As I am into the spicy area, I had chili crisps and onion crisps with a side of pepsi max. My pizza had lots of meat and garlic sauce. This morning, I decided it was work out time. You can guess what my poor tummy thought of that.  I have rewarded it with a hot shower and tea now... just learn from the expert, do not declare war against your own stomach like this 😄 

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    2. mini.finch

      mini.finch

      Sounds like a great night! Lots of yummy food! 😄 I'm not good with spicy food, but everything still sounds yummy. ❤️ Sorry though about your tummy rebelling with the exercise! Take it easy!

    3. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @mini.finch I do this every weekend, even if this one was a bit extra. I wouldn't be motivated to stick with my food plan if I didn't get to eat my dear junk food at Fridays and Saturdays :) 

    4. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      @jazz101 Swedish specialty. We love throwing junk food on junk food :) 

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