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  1. snmls

    Tomorrow is my 11th trauma-anniversary. It's hard to believe. Some days it feels like just yesterday, but I'm proud of all I have accomplished since then.  

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    2. Doll6

      Doll6

      Sitting with you too if ok 

    3. snmls

      snmls

      Thank you all. You've been a part of my healing journey and I would not be the person I am today without you. :throb::loveas:

    4. Doll6

      Doll6

      Thank you for sharing your healing journey with us @snmls, it’s a privilege to follow along with 

  2. snmls

    April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month #SAAM

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Very good to know! Thanks for the reminder, snmls! 

    2. WolfMoon

      WolfMoon

      Yess, trying to spread more awareness! 

  3. snmls

    My T told me they are leaving the practice in a few weeks. This is going to be the third time I'm changing T's since I started at the practice several years ago. It's always hard to start over. 

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    2. Doll6

      Doll6

      I’m sorry @snmls, that sucks!! It is tough starting over. Can you ask them to do a handover to the new t? 

    3. Jaylore

      Jaylore

      sitting with you :throb:

    4. snmls

      snmls

      Thanks @Jaylore

  4. snmls

    It's been a tough 48 hours. I'm so emotionally exhausted. 😔

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    2. awi

      awi

      just saw this post today.  sitting with you @snmls

    3. snmls

      snmls

      Thanks @awi. I appreciate it. Things have gotten a little better, but there are still so many unknowns. It makes it hard to calm my anxieties. 

    4. awi

      awi

      keeping you company during this time friend. sitting with you and hugs if k

  5. snmls

    Thinking of you all :tealribbon::throb:

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    2. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      :hug:

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      :bighug: ❤️ 

    4. Doll6

      Doll6

      :bighug:

  6. snmls

    Wishing everyone here a happy and a healthy holiday season

    1. WannaMoveOn

      WannaMoveOn

      You too! Happy holiday season!

    2. ActivistAlly

      ActivistAlly

      Happy holidays SNMLS!!!

    3. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Hi snmls! Wishing you a healthy, happy and peaceful holiday season, as well. :throb: 

  7. snmls

    :tealribbon: Let's be the light for one another

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      :friends2::throb: :bighug:

    2. ActivistAlly

      ActivistAlly

      💡

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      ❤️ 

  8. snmls

    Have been surviving and even thriving for 10 years now. Healing is possible. :tealribbon:

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      :throb: 

    2. Jaylore

      Jaylore

      💜

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      ❤️

  9. snmls

    Going to see a pelvic floor PT on Thursday. Wish me luck. Pocketriders welcome. 

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    2. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      As it is Friday, I missed it. I hope it went well. Sending hugs. :hug: 

    3. snmls

      snmls

      Thanks all. The appointment went well. The PT was very good at explaining things and making me feel comfortable. I'm going back this week. 

    4. Doll6

      Doll6

      That’s great news!! 

  10. snmls

    Stepping down from the newbie support team. My life has gotten busier and I no longer have the time to dedicate to being an active member of the team. It has been an honor being a part of the AS staff these past few years. I'll still be hanging around the site though. 

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    2. Doll6

      Doll6

      Thank you for helping out @snmls!! Glad you’re still going to be around 😊

    3. snmls

      snmls

      Thank you all! Sorry for the delay, I was out of town for the week. You all mean so much to me and have helped my healing. :throb:

    4. Doll6

      Doll6

      ❤️

  11. snmls

    Happy Juneteenth to those in the U.S.! 

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      I second that! :throb: 

  12. snmls

    Happy new year AS family. Wishing you all the best in 2024. 

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    2. ActivistAlly

      ActivistAlly

      Happy new year SNMLS!!!!

       

    3. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      :throb: 

    4. Doll6

      Doll6

      The same to you @snmls! 

  13. snmls

    Feel like I'm caught in an endless cycle that I'll never be able to break. 😔

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    2. snmls

      snmls

      :throb:

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      Sorry I’m late. Sending safe hugs if ok :bighug:

    4. snmls

      snmls

      Thanks @Doll6. :hug:

  14. snmls

    My dog is having a procedure done on his eye tomorrow morning. I'm nervous about it. 

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Awww. Sitting with you @snmls. Hoping your furbaby heals quickly.. :hug: 

    2. snmls

      snmls

      Thanks Mary. He's doing okay. It's been a bear getting the eye drops in multiple times a day, but I think he's doing better. He's going for a recheck on Wednesday. 

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      Hope his check up goes well @snmls

  15. snmls

    April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month.  :tealribbon: This year's theme is “Drawing Connections: Prevention Demands Equity.” This campaign calls on all individuals, communities, organizations, and institutions to change ourselves and the systems surrounding us to build racial equity and respect.

    1. Capulet

      Capulet

      :tealribbon:

  16. snmls

    Getting my wisdom teeth out tomorrow. 😬 Sitters welcome and good vibes appreciated! 

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    2. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Pocket riding! :throb: 

      I know how anxious you can be. I had two teeth pulled earlier this year. It's certainly not fun. 

      Hope you are stocked up on softer foods for a few days. An added inconvenience on top of the anxiousness of the appointment itself.

      Safe hugs. :hug: 

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      Pocket riding with you!!! (Hopefully I'm not too late!) I hope it goes well. I haven't had mine out...so I can't say, but I've heard it's not fun. Take gentle care of yourself afterwards. Treat yourself to something nice. ❤️ Best wishes! *safe hugs*

    4. snmls

      snmls

      Thank you all. The procedure went well and the pain has been minimal. Been eating all the soft foods. 

      The only downside is that I'm recovering at my parents house and all their fighting has been upsetting and triggering to me. Definitely not the most healing environment. Hopefully, I'll be back in my apartment tomorrow. 

  17. snmls

    Be kind to yourself this holiday season. 

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thank you, snmls. ❤️ It's an important reminder! I hope you do, too.

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      Thanks @snmls, you too! ☺️

    4. snmls

      snmls

      Thanks all :throb:

  18. snmls

    Happy Hanukkah to those who celebrate! 

  19. snmls

    Feeling lonely tonight

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Sitting with you, friend. :bighug:

    3. Survivor0718

      Survivor0718

      I’m late to this but hoping today is better 💐 

    4. snmls

      snmls

      Thanks all. I just got stuck in my feelings last night. Feeling better today, spent some time with my friend. 

  20. snmls

    I was brave at my doctor's appointment this afternoon. Feeling proud. 💪

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Nice! So proud of you!! :party:

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      Well done, that’s awesome!! 

    4. snmls

      snmls

      Thank you all! Though it was scary, it know it was an act to keep myself healthy. Glad I don't have to worry about it now for a few years. 

  21. snmls

    First session with my new T tomorrow morning. Hope it goes well! 

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    2. snmls

      snmls

      Hi @Doll6, @Mave, @mini.finch, and @MeBeMary. Thanks for the well wishes. Sorry to take so long to reply back. The first session went well. I think she is someone I will work well with and feel comfortable with. We'll see how our relationship evolves over the next few weeks.  

    3. Doll6

      Doll6

      Yay, fingers crossed for you!!

    4. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Glad it went well, but yes. It takes time for a relationship and trust to build. It's a good start tho and I hope it continues to build properly. :up:  

  22. snmls

    Please sit with me 

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    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      Sitting with you, snmls. ❤️ Sending you strength and lots of support.

    3. Field8

      Field8

      Always with you

    4. snmls

      snmls

      Thank you all for sitting with me. You are the best. It's rough now, but things will get better. :hug::throb:

  23. snmls

    April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. :notalone:

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    2. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Only one cause. :hammer: 

      Thanks for this important reminder of this important month, snmls. :throb: 

       

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    3. snmls

      snmls

      :goodpost2:

    4. Survivor0718

      Survivor0718

      :tealribbon:

  24. snmls

    T told me today that she is leaving the practice in May. Just sad. I don't like having to start over. 

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      So sorry to hear that. I know creating a bond is never easy. I do hope you find one that will be just as worth it. 

      :hug: 

    2. snmls

      snmls

      Thanks Mary. I hope that I am able to have another good transition with a new T. This is my second time starting over due to a T leaving the practice. 

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      Oh no. That really sucks. :( I hope that things will go well with getting a new T. Wishing you all the best. ❤️ 

  25. snmls

    Wishing a safe, happy, and peaceful new year to my AS family

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    2. 8888

      8888

      Happy New Year!

    3. Finchy

      Finchy

      Likewise, snmls. ❤️ Sending you lots of positive vibes for the new year!

    4. snmls

      snmls

      Thank you all!   :throb:

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