Nikobee

To answer you: yes. You did not consent, it's assault. I'm sorry you have to go through this. You're not alone. Everyone here is really supportive and helpful. I hope you find what you need - here ir elsewhere.

You're definitely not alone. I hope this group is able to help you.

I totally understand. For me, the shame and self loathing never really seems to go away, no matter how many times I say it isn't my fault. I can know that in my head but there's always a horrible little voice in the back of my mind that says otherwise. My goal is to get past that. I hope you can too.

I'm new too. Welcome - I hope the group helps.

Thank you all. I hope we can all heal together.

I'm new here and new to talking about my experiences. I'm really struggling and can't really talk to anyone I know (I started therapy last week). After 8 years for pretending nothing happened I'm overwhelmed by how intense and fresh my feelings of fear, isolation, and self loathing are. I don't know if I'll feel better but I'm hoping that realizing that I'm not alone will be the first step in the right direction. Thanks for listening. N