Emmy091796

Its hard to trust anybody especially after abuse has occured. I know for me it was a big step that I'm still not fully comfortable with. As for that guy just stay away from him.

Good luck with everything I hope you continue to find peace

That was beautiful I wish I had the courage to write a letter like this. I'm not strong enough yet but I hope to in the future

Thank you for sharing. I was also raped by a family member and the betrayal was one of the hardest parts other than ofcourse the rape itself. I hope in sharing you feel a little bit better about all of it. im also here for support..

I'm glad she caught that. Good luck I hope you find peace

No its not I have a perfect relationship and family and I'm about to ruin it with the past and not knowing if I be alone am I gonna be OK. I feel like a shitty person too but I'm not happy where I am and I need to fix that. Everything will be okay if you need to talk you can message me

Thanks that helps i just hate feeling that my relationship is gonna end because of me

Usually I go swing when I'm upset but today it just drove me further from my family. I feel this overwhelming amount of depression. IT's getting in the way of my relationship with my husband. I feel he could do so much better than me.to be honest I'm starting to feel like a drone day in and day out. I feel like maybe some space or a break from each other might help. I honestly don't want to confront him with that I know it would kill him that's I just don't know What to do anymore. Maybe I'm not meant to be with anyone I've been with him going on 5 years and he hasn't done anything wrong other

Yeah I look but for some reason dancing in the darkness feels warm I gues. the site has encouraging information and I really like the name and the backgroun. When I see the name or think about it (Dancing in the darkness) it's such a perfect statement describing me.

It happens a lot more than people realize we just learn to move on or try our best too

It wasn't your time yet but don't be discouraged in trying sexual things with your partner.things will get better

it will be OK if he can't handle your problems as a team together as you should for him then he doesn't need to be there but keep trying and see What happens

I found this chat group through an old website called dancing in the darkness. It helps me a lot to read everybody's stories and there's sadly hundreds of stories on that site that I can relate to. It really encourages me to keep going I still go to that site even though nobody's wrote on it since 2006. Is that healthy or OK?

Yes I agree. My husband knows Everything and he's still here and that's What really count. my problem is inner turmoil also it is so hard to get comfy with someone and even when you do your still not positive of trust for a while. But it will be OK and things will get better

There are things my parents don't know like some sexual abuse when I was a child I won't ever tell them. It is not your fault nobody knows when these things are going to occur. We just have to live with it try to move on the best we can.if you need to talk feel free to message me