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Labrador

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  1. Hi Asheley, I struggle with that issue as well. Minimizing my abuse, being in denial, and being detached from my feelings got me a long way. I don't think I'll ever "get over it". My goal is to be able to live with it and not be controlled by it. To be able to take the shame, guilt, anger, fear, resentment, and whatever other feelings I have and release them. For me, I've learned the ick always waits inside for me. I can avoid it, I can be a workaholic, I can pretend I'm fine, but it's always there waiting to be worked through. I look forward to reading your words, hearing what you ha
  2. I really have trouble finding the words to say how much these posts mean to me. You folks are incredible. (Have to take a little break to just shake for a while) I'll post later today. But thank you for being here for me when I'm not quite sure I can be here for myself.
  3. Hi AnimalLover21, Thought I'd pop in and say hello to you as well. I agree with you. This is a great site full of a lot of support. You're definitely not alone. Wags from my pups, lab
  4. Thank you everyone for the warm welcome. It's greatly appreciated. I'm still struggling. It's not easy. It helps to know that people have been here. That people do heal. That life can and will get better. Thanks for ... well, thanks
  5. Nevermind, problem solved. I hooked up another computer. Think my favorite computer is sick.
  6. okay, so I can reply to threads that I've started, but not to others. This is really confusing. I'm going to go try to reply to another thread.
  7. I can't reply to any threads. I can start topics. I can send PMs. I have deleted my cookies, purged my temp files, cleared my cache, run spyware, rebooted my computer. I use aol 7.0. Any suggestions?
  8. I've been having trouble posting, so this is a test. In the off chance that it does go through, I'm lab. Been going through another round of ick, which means more healing/growing if I face it and work through it. This looks like a very supportive place with lots of wisdom. I thank everyone for the posts that I've been reading for the last 2 days. They help me to stay focused and away from my good friend "denial".
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