BFH I totally hear you! No matter what happened to us there's always something worse to compare it to. My abuse was pretty bad (by my own reckoning) and I find myself saying "but look at all the war victims and tragedy the so and so people are facing. My Dad terrorizing me for half my childhood isn't really THAt bad... There's always a worse story out there. Don't let that belittle your healing- how important it is, how hard it is, and how much you deserve to acknowledge your truth. I'm sorry about what happened to you. You deserve to heal!