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Panther

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  1. powerful song for survivors

     

  2. irt your avatar i love that i went from let it go to into the unknown within the span of a month.

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Hehe yup! ❤️ 

  3. I AM THE TIME THIEF. I AM THE EAGLE BEARER. I AM THE MERMAID WHO GOT HER LEGS.

  4. I'll be taking a slight break from here, only logging in twice a week. I've become a bit obsessive over and overly attached to this place. Love ya'll.

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Do what you need to, wolfennights. ❤️ It's totally ok. Take gentle care, ok? 

    2. Doll6

      Doll6

      Please look after yourself @wolfennights

  5. You truly do absolutely amazing work on here. I always look forward to reading your responses to posts.

  6. I've been feeling like a wild animal lately, a stray cat with a compass. Thank you for your kind words. In my 20s my favorite word was autonomy. Now in my 30s my favorite word is agency. 

  7. I haven't been able to read or respond to your posts lately but I just wanted to let you know I love you and care about you. We don't talk much but I do think about you from time to time. I hope you have good people in your life with good food and good shelter. 💚💜💙

    1. Reyzl

      Reyzl

      Thanks for your message@wolfennights , that's really sweet. I do have those things, I'm very fortunate really. Hope you are doing okay :)

       

  8. ❤️ (short on words but thank you for the times you responded to my posts)

    1. AngelasAshes

      AngelasAshes

      💗 absolutely

  9. Hi, i saw that you were a mother. Would i be able to ask you for some advice?

    1. TatteredSunflower

      TatteredSunflower

      Sure! Though I will be honest - I'm a lil bit tipsy at the moment. So if you'd rather I wait til tomorrow to respond, please just tell me that. No offense taken. 

  10. Okay Home Alone is a hella more frightening as an adult woman.

    1. Friendlylife
    2. Finchy

      Finchy

      I haven't watched it since I was a kid, so I don't even remember it much. I'll take your word for it though! :lol: 

  11. Hi, how are you doing today? Did you have a good Thanksgiving?

  12. Panther

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    I'm proud of you for showering and reaching out for help here. There will be good days and bad days. Just know that whatever you need to feel is acceptable here. And you don't need to go into the details all at once. I'd love to be a part of your support system too, but i cant promise i'll always know what to say.
  13. The more I see you post the more I'm reminded of Chanel Miller and want you to meet her. :) Her memoir has been a major source of healing for me, as has been this community. The publicity and news articles make it feel so emotionless and impersonal. I couldn't pay attention to the news articles, especially since her assailant is from my hometown (technically, I've lived here ten years which is the longest I've lived in one state).

    1. Iheartcupcakes

      Iheartcupcakes

      @wolfennights That is quite a compliment. Thank you so much. I want to read her memoir when I can. 

  14. What kinda name for a tv show is "naked and afraid"???

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    2. Iheartcupcakes

      Iheartcupcakes

      I know. I don't like it. I will never watch it. 

    3. Field8
    4. KendraPal33

      KendraPal33

      Such a poor choice of words for a show title, but I guess that type of stuff sells. 🤷‍♀️

  15. I just wanted to leave a nice note here. I think of you every now and then when i think of this site. How its helped me. You may not feel it right now but you are stronger than anyone who has ever hurt you. And if you are a little tadpole darting around frantically, a goldfish in a plastic bag of water getting used to the temperature of the pond water, or a caterpillar putting on its dozens of shoes, those are all okay. 💜🌺🍀

  16. So long, bed bugs! Hope you enjoyed being burnt to a crisp in my hot car in the sun!

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Haha! Good riddance!

    2. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      Hate those creepy crawlies! My dad's house was infected years back and I would get the bites. Oh, I hated them!  I was very lucky tho, not to transfer to my home.

      Glad you were able to kill them with the sun. ☀️

  17. Thank you for your responses to my posts. I don't usually have the energy to respond to everyone unfortunately. I just recognized your name once or twice.

    1. feralcat

      feralcat

      No worries Wolfennights… I hope I can be helpful sometimes. I think you’re doing well with complicated, difficult stuff. You have such a good heart and so much strength 🌟💙

    2. Panther
  18. heyo, are you feeling any better?

    1. Finchy

      Finchy

      Thanks for asking. ❤️ I'm doing vaguely better, but struggling with guilt. I'm heading off to bed soon, so I'm hoping I can just sleep and feel better tomorrow! 

  19. I've seen you mention France a fair bit. Do you know any French?

    1. Reyzl

      Reyzl

      Hi Wolfennights, yeah, my dad was French so I know some. I'm not bilingual sadly and I'm very rusty but I understand a lot.

      Reyzl x

    2. Panther

      Panther

      That's neat. I took a year of French in high school and a year of Spanish in elementary school. I'm currently learning Japanese. Is French a trigger for you at all?

    3. Reyzl

      Reyzl

      Wow they start you early on languages! I bet Japanese is interesting. No not really triggered by French except for the odd thing my dad used to say. I learnt Spanish in high school then lived in Spain, and later taught myself Yiddish. That just erased my French - now every time I think I'm speaking French it turns out to be Spanish or Yiddish in a French accent lol!

  20. Anyone available to talk?

    1. feralcat

      feralcat

      🌻🌼🌻🐥🐐🦙 (wasn't around Monday pm, so sending you flowers and cute baby animals. Maybe try posting in Gathering place to talk if you'd like?)

  21. Tbh the downtime and upgrade made me nostalgic for when my old forum would go down for days at a time as a kid. Looks great!
  22. I want a month long vacation where all i do is rest while someone comforts me and brings me food and touches my head. As a kid I'd often wait for My mother to turn on my light, sit on my bed, and wake me up in the morning. Even when my alarm had already gone off. I miss when the worst thing i had to worry about was if a girl liked me back. I miss horseback riding with My mother. Weirdly enough i used to feel safest in hospitals.
  23. My disabilities and birth defects made me a stressful child and i was the youngest of three. Children are not little adults. Feeding your child and taking them to the doctor doesn't earn you "mother of the century" awards. I feel so hurt and ignored and like an object around you, mom. All my life. I shouldn't feel more safe and loved by my doctors and teachers and occupational therapists. So many times I wanted them to take me home instead. I don't believe you or anyone else when you say you loved me. The logic i followed for Tyler was the same logic i applied to you. That love meant doing wh
  24. What forum would a post about parents being functional alcoholics growing up be put under?

    1. MeBeMary

      MeBeMary

      I am sorry you experienced this. :(

      I believe this type topic could fit under a few different forums, depending on how you wanted to discuss it.

      1. Psychological Well-being, if it is about it effected you.
      2. Venting, if it something you need to...well vent it.
      3. Aftermath, if it really is a bit of everything.

      Sitting with you, if you like. :hug: if ok.

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