Thank you Mary! It has been very hard to trust others, especially men. And the more I've processed what happened yesterday, the angrier I've felt & realized that this guy is no friend of mine. Makes no difference how long we've known each other or how 'nice' he seems to be most of the time. I'm still learning how to place the blame where it belongs, and not to take anyone else's for myself. ihopetosave--I agree that writing is very powerful! I journal most every day, and I'm also a musician--so I write a lot of songs, which is incredibly cathartic for me! The reading has been helpf