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For the first time sine 2019, I will be living in the same state as my Mom. She has been planning a big move for about a year, and has been thinking about it for much, much longer. Originally, she was going to go overseas and live somewhat close to my older sister, who is in grad school over in Europe. My Mom is now retired, and officially an empty nester this year. She wanted to do something strictly for herself and go back to school, which we all encouraged her to do. Well, that plan fell through because she couldn't sell her house in time. It really sucks because she's a little worrie

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Welcome friend. so glad you found us. Keeping you company this part of your journey @MidnightSky

Hello MidnightSky, Welcome to the community. I am very sorry for what you went thru. Nobody has the right to hurt another, like you were hurt. You've found a supportive community. The members here are understanding and kind. You are not alone. Nervous and unsure...I get that. Many of us do. It's not easy to do, trying something new, especially about something so personal and painful. Being vulnerable is not easy, but sometimes being vulnerable is the same as being strong. Either way, it's ok to take your time. Take everything at your own pace and know that we are here for you.

Hi er.46. Welcome to the community. I'm very sorry for the trauma you experienced and any lingering struggles this has likely caused. It was wrong, unfair, and undeserved. You have found a supportive community with many understanding and kind members. You are not alone. Take your time and look around. Interact when and where you feel comfortable. It's not an easy journey we are on, but I find it easier with those who relate...tho always wish no one could relate. Wishing you many healing steps as you move forward on this tricky path we call healing. Mary

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Welcome! You're not alone. Most of us are nervous when first joining a new place, and when working on healing! It's not easy. But you will be ok. We're here for you. Best wishes on your healing journey! -Finchy

Hi The fact that you're trying is a big step and accomplishment! If some boards feel overwhelming there's a section called these precious things that made me feel more hopeful when I first got here.

Hello @MidnightSky Welcome to AfterSilence! I'm glad you found our website and I hope AfterSilence will be a great part of the support you deserve! I understand you feel nervous and unsure but I hope you'll find this is a safe place as you look around the boards and get to know our community!

Here. New. Nervous. Unsure. But Trying...

Hi @er.46 and welcome to Aftersilence. I'm hoping you'll find this a safe place where you feel heard and that we can help support you as you heal from the aftermath of being a survivor. Though I'm sad for the reasons that brought you here, I'm glad you found us! ActivistAlly

Welcome to this safe place. So glad you found us

Hi, i'm new to AS. I am a survivor, it's been 3 years.

Hello there Gigi and welcome here! So far, how is it going? I do hope you'll be getting that extra support that you need and deserve. AS invites all survivors regardless of timeline. It could have been 3 days, 3 months, or 30 years, it is never too late to join in. Please do let me know if I can help you out in any way, or just want a little chat. I am just one PM away. All best, W

Welcome to AS, you are not alone here

Welcome, this is a safe place

Dear gigi Welcome to After Silence!! I'm sorry for what you have been through. I find it is easier to talk on forums then out loud. Being here has helped me so much, even from the first time I ever posted. It is still helping me - I have so much support here and I know you will, as well. Here at AS, we are like a big family and our members are kind and non-judgemental. I am sending you lots of safe hugs! Take care!

Dear becca Welcome to After Silence!! I'm sorry for what you have been through. I find it is easier to talk on forums then out loud. Being here has helped me so much, even from the first time I ever posted. It is still helping me - I have so much support here and I know you will, as well. Here at AS, we are like a big family and our members are kind and non-judgemental. I am sending you lots of safe hugs! Take care!

Welcome to After Silence Gigi!!! I'm sorry for the reason that brought you here but I'm glad you've found us. I hope After Silence can be a solid support for you as you deal with the aftermath of what happened to you and try to make your life the best it can be.

Welcome to this safe place

Hello All, I am Gigi a 30+ year survivor...glad to be here.

I remember that—you are doing the right thing by reaching out.

Welcome to AS, take your time going through the site.

Thanks everyone, I'm really grateful for your support

Hello! Welcome, take your time and feel free to say whethever you want and how you want...