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Posted 25 February 2011 - 01:02 PM
I'm not sure how possible this is but thought I'd ask anyway...
Is there any chance the 'name' on email notifications could be altered? I get pop-ups on my laptop if I receive an email, and if anyone else is nearby they can see "After Silence - a message board and chat room for R, SA, and SA survivors" (obviously with the full words not the acronyms) pop up in a box on my computer.
'After Silence' is pretty miscellaneous in itself and the vast majority of non-members wouldn't bat an eyelid to it... I understand that we shouldn't be silencing the whole reason why we're here, that's the LAST thing I'm trying to request, I just wondered if you had any thoughts on removing the 'other' part on email notifications?
I'll completely understand any answer given, it's a bit of a long shot, I'm just not ready for other people to see or hear anything about "this stuff", not sure if I'm the only one who freaks out when they receive an email!?
Any thoughts would be great!
Posted 25 February 2011 - 01:22 PM
Posted 25 February 2011 - 02:17 PM
i think that's a good idea.
when i was checking into my email account from work (where people might be looking over my shoulder), this actually made me uncomfortable, too.
i dont think it would have anything to do with silencing to be more discrete in the email name.
Posted 25 February 2011 - 02:20 PM
Thank you for putting that on the table (If I can say that this way).
I was thinking of that too. Actually more thinking ok should I or not check my email right now (when I am at uni and that on one glimpse someone - anyone, could read the title).
Posted 25 February 2011 - 07:25 PM
Posted 27 February 2011 - 06:16 PM
Posted 27 February 2011 - 11:12 PM
Unfortunately, to compromise the detail description of email notifications would also mean to compromise our keywords, which are in many cases responsible for how survivors find us through popular search engines like google, yahoo, etc. The email notification system borrows the title for the email from the complete title of the board, After Silence - A message board and chat room for rape, sexual assault, and sexual abuse survivors. As I'm not aware of a way to separate the two, to change the title of the email notifications I would also need modify the title of our page (and therefore lose rich keywords that allow survivors to find us when they type things like "rape survivor message board" on a search engine).
Posted 27 February 2011 - 11:37 PM
Posted 28 February 2011 - 01:15 AM
Posted 28 February 2011 - 02:10 AM
You can choose to not recieve any e-mails from the site - or have a dedication e-mail address just for After silence - if you go to
my controls = you will see all the options there for e-mails settings etc
Posted 28 February 2011 - 11:25 AM
Posted 28 February 2011 - 09:09 PM