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Is It Possible To Go A Whole Day Without Thinking About It?

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#16 sweetaslemons

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Posted 01 February 2011 - 12:30 AM

i do think about it everyday, but it's more little flickers of it/him, rather than 24/7 like it was a couple years ago. what happened doesn't have control over me like it used to. the, for lack of better word, obsession is gone. i think it will be a while before i only think about it every once in a while, though.

#17 Chasm


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Posted 01 February 2011 - 03:35 AM

I think there has been a whole day where I did not think about being molested once. Perhaps not though. 533.gif I know that I do not think about it as often as I did and when I do it is easier to shove the thoughts away and deal with them later or to even deal with them right then.

#18 Alicenomore

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Posted 04 January 2014 - 02:14 AM

I am not there yet, every day at some point it manages to rear it's ugly head, although it is a lot less than it was.

#19 ~FOUND~


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Posted 14 March 2014 - 01:57 AM

I think it's possible.

I don't think about it every second of the day like I used to.

There is hope. 


#20 StruggliNSilence14



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Posted Yesterday, 07:03 PM

How in the hell could I?????when its out of my control....always been outta my control. I have flashbacks and triggers during the day, only to be haunted at night with the nightmares..... for sooooooo long. So long tht i feel like giving up ....theres no hope for me, but i hope for all of you...*supporting and listening always* ~Sarah :butterfly: