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5 Words To Your Perpetrator


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#1 Z09

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 02:40 PM

Something someone said to me the other day got me thinking about what I would actually say to my abuser if I ever saw him again. And I started by thinking about all the swear words I could use and then about how much I hate him etc, and how I feel. And I could say so much to him and hurl so much abuse at him. But then I thought, if I could only say 5 words to him, what would those 5 words be. Of the thousands of words in the english language, what five would I pick to express everything I feel towards the man that I love the most in this world, hate the most in this world, yet at the same time am most scared of in this world. So, feel free to add smile.gif

The five words I would say are;

"Let this go - you're forgiven"

#2 Araya

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 02:51 PM

Daddy I hate it all

#3 Kelly

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 03:08 PM

Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?


#4 ruth37

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 03:31 PM

trust, hope, love, believe- GONE cry.gif

#5 seamonkey

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 08:11 PM

You can't hurt me now

#6 Irish Dance Lass 20

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 10:19 PM

I hate you both ALOT

#7 Peacegirl

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 10:32 PM

Be glad I'm against violence

#8 kimbees324

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 11:10 PM

Rot in hell you bastard!!!

HMMMMMMMM......I guess I'm not at the forgiving stage as of yet.

Edited by kimbees324, 22 November 2008 - 11:11 PM.


#9 kml1964

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 11:27 PM

Why did you choose me !

#10 fightergirl

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Posted 22 November 2008 - 11:31 PM

you tore my world apart

#11 whimsical1

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 10:16 PM

You will not control me.

Edited by whimsical1, 24 November 2008 - 01:51 PM.


#12 sunshinee

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 10:34 PM

So are you happy now?

#13 PilatesAddict

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Posted 23 November 2008 - 11:08 PM

Don't know if there are any words but I would like to say
"You ARE a rapist!"
"You are a MONSTER!"

#14 John

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Posted 24 November 2008 - 06:59 AM

sadistic b*tch burn in hell

#15 hollygolightly

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Posted 24 November 2008 - 07:03 AM

I am in charge now.