Welcome to After Silence - A message board and chat room for rape, sexual assault, and sexual abuse survivors.
|Welcome to After Silence, a message board and chat room designed to help survivors communicate in the recovery of rape, sexual abuse, sexual assault, and all types of sexual violence.
After Silence has over 30 different forums, ranging from topics created to discuss specific areas of healing and recovery from rape and sexual violence, as well as forums open to general discussions and lighter topics. Because we value the privacy of our members, most of our forums are private, which means that ONLY REGISTERED members have access to them. Please register for a free account to gain full access to the After Silence Online Support Group.
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Posted 03 January 2004 - 02:22 PM
Posted 03 January 2004 - 03:54 PM
I don't know your story but no matter what course of action you took, it was NOT your fault. It does not matter if you were drunk or trusted the wrong friend or were abused by a family member or significant other. You did not deserve what happened to you and it was not your fault.
We are all trying to heal and carry on with our lifes and I think that accepting the fact that it was NOT our fault is a huge step in the right direction.
Feel free to post anytime, we are here for you.
Posted 03 January 2004 - 08:24 PM
every day you survive is a battle won. Talk through it if you like, we're here to listen. I'm glad you have found us. Healing is difficult, continuous, and sometimes scary but I hope you will be comforted by knowing we are here.
Posted 03 January 2004 - 08:46 PM
I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted 05 January 2004 - 02:42 PM
Welcome to After Silence. I am glad you've found your way here and do hope you find all the support and encouragement you are seeking here.
Echoing the rest, it is sometimes easier to take the blame upon ourselves. We do not ask to be hurt in this way, and sometimes it's hard to accept that something so painful could ever happen to us. Hang in there honey and please stop blaming yourself.
Take gentle care,