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#1 Guest_GirlComeUndone_*

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Posted 16 December 2003 - 08:49 PM

Hi, my name is Paeten I'm 23 and I'm from the East Coast. I've been attacked 3 times. Once when I was about 7 and then once when I was 19 and then about 9 months ago. I have a 3 year old daughter, Paige from rape and had a miscarriage because of my last one.
I'm a wreck right now. My daughter is living with my parents since my last rape because I can't handle it. I've been suicidal since I was 10 and the last time was about 3 months ago.

#2 Vera


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Posted 16 December 2003 - 09:46 PM

I'm sorry your life has been so painful, I understand how hard this must be for you and how many difficulties you have had to overcome and I hold you close to my heart.

Welcome to the group, I hope you'll find support and many new friends here.

Hugs & Love,

#3 Haullie


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Posted 16 December 2003 - 10:11 PM

My heart goes out to you in your stages of healing and I wish you all of the luck in the world getting through these hard times. Keep your chin up sweetie and even though your daughter was born out of rape she is still a miraculous blessing no matter what and I have always said that sometimes good things can come out of bad things no matter what ties they have to them. Blood means nothing, you are her Mother and that is all that matters in the world. I bet looking at her is a walking talking reason to forward any kind of healing process.


#4 Wendy



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Posted 17 December 2003 - 03:45 PM

Welcome to the group. I'm sorry that you have been through so much, but am glad you have found this support group. Keep expressing, don't keep it in.


[Edited on 12-17-2003 by Wendy]

#5 Peacegirl


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Posted 17 December 2003 - 09:24 PM


Welcome to this group as well! I'm here if you need anything.



#6 Lindy


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Posted 18 December 2003 - 09:45 AM


Hi and welcome to the forum. I'm sorry you've endured so much. We're here for you whenever you need us. I hope you find support and healing here as I have.

Take gentle care,


#7 Guest_mand76uk_*

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Posted 18 December 2003 - 02:34 PM

((( Paeten )))

Welcome to the group. I hope that here you will find the support to help you in your healing journey, as I have.

((( Hugs )))


#8 Guest_GirlComeUndone_*

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Posted 18 December 2003 - 08:59 PM

thanks you everyone for a welcome.
I hope I will feel comfortable here soon.