Welcome to After Silence - A message board and chat room for rape, sexual assault, and sexual abuse survivors.
|Welcome to After Silence, a message board and chat room designed to help survivors communicate in the recovery of rape, sexual abuse, sexual assault, and all types of sexual violence.
After Silence has over 30 different forums, ranging from topics created to discuss specific areas of healing and recovery from rape and sexual violence, as well as forums open to general discussions and lighter topics. Because we value the privacy of our members, most of our forums are private, which means that ONLY REGISTERED members have access to them. Please register for a free account to gain full access to the After Silence Online Support Group.
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Just Saying Hello
Posted 07 October 2004 - 02:38 PM
I have only recently acknowledged that the problems in my life are the result of the abuse I suffered as a child.I have no confidense,low self esteem,hate myself, I do not mix with people,never allow anyone to get too close...etc etc..
The only other time I spoke of the abuse was when I was 15 and reported the abuser...but after being in care for a few months the case was dropped and i had to go back to them... That totally destroyed my faith in "the system" and people in general....hence it has taken me over 20 years to let it out in the open again..
anyway thats enough for me today...
hello to everyone and I look forward to getting to know you all,
Posted 07 October 2004 - 02:44 PM
Sweeite your now found and not alone, im sorry that you have any reason to be here but i am glad that you found this place.
Feel free to post as much as you would like and know that we are here for you, your not alone.
Posted 07 October 2004 - 02:45 PM
I am sorry for what you have had to endure, and how much worse the reactions to it from others have made you feel. I understand how it makes you loose faith in just about everything.
Welcome to the board. This is a safe place, you are not alone. Keep posting as you feel comfortable, we are here to listen and help!
Posted 07 October 2004 - 05:11 PM
I'm another newbie,I've been here for only a few days but have already found this site to be of tremendous support and a place to release feelings without being judged.I truly hope you find this site to be as helpful.
I am so sorry for the pain your feeling right now
Love and Light
Posted 07 October 2004 - 09:08 PM
So sorry that you were so hurt. Glad you found your way here. Hope you will feel not so lost and alone now that you know that we feel with you and for you.
Be gentle with yourself. We are here and listening
Posted 08 October 2004 - 07:10 AM
I'm glad you found your way here.
Healing is hard..but this place helps...take good care
Posted 08 October 2004 - 12:56 PM
hope you find the boards a great source of comfort and help,
Posted 08 October 2004 - 02:10 PM
The system isn't adequately equipped to deal with these sort of problems. There are still a lot of steps we need to take to ensure the protection of survivors and adequate punishment and/or treatment for victimizers.
I'm sorry for what happened to you as a child. I hope you can find some comfort and support here with us.
Posted 09 October 2004 - 05:36 AM
Posted 24 October 2004 - 12:17 AM
I know how you fell. you're afraid for those who get to close and then find out will leave you. Well that may happen a few times...but it wont happen alot.
Don't blame yourself...it's not your fault. No matter what.
Don't hate yourself...you have alot of people who love you and care for you...no matter how alone you fell.
You may not beable to trust now...but give it time it will come back.
tons of huggies to you