Welcome to After Silence - A message board and chat room for rape, sexual assault, and sexual abuse survivors.
|Welcome to After Silence, a message board and chat room designed to help survivors communicate in the recovery of rape, sexual abuse, sexual assault, and all types of sexual violence.
After Silence has over 30 different forums, ranging from topics created to discuss specific areas of healing and recovery from rape and sexual violence, as well as forums open to general discussions and lighter topics. Because we value the privacy of our members, most of our forums are private, which means that ONLY REGISTERED members have access to them. Please register for a free account to gain full access to the After Silence Online Support Group.
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New To All This
Posted 27 June 2004 - 06:55 AM
I would really appreciate it if somebody could reply.
Iapologise for this msg being so long i just couldn't stop once i'd started.
Posted 27 June 2004 - 09:17 AM
Welcome! we are so happy to have you here with us (not about the reason, though). Being nervous about this is completely understandable, don't worry about that. I'd suggest reading other people's posts and you'll eventually get more comfortable posting too. That doesn't mean that you'll immeditely be ready to tell your own story, and that isn't a problem either. Nobody is here to push you to do anything, we are here to support you. We are all going through the same thing, some of us are a little ahead in the healing process and some of us are at other stages. You'll soon realize that you are not alone in your feelings of weakness and shame, and maybe there will come a time when you'll just feel that it's the right time to share. Just be patient and remember that you are not alone,
Posted 27 June 2004 - 10:01 AM
I'm still new here too, just wanna say that noone her is expecting you to talk when you're not ready. It's good that you found this place, take your time, hang around a bit and get comfortable.
Posted 27 June 2004 - 03:44 PM
Lookin forward 2 gettin 2 know u.....
Posted 28 June 2004 - 04:19 AM
i am sorry for the pain that has brought you here but i am glad you have found us!
everyone here is wonderful and supportive. take your time, i know how hard it can be- you don't have to share anything you're not ready to
firstly i want to say that there is no time frame in which to "get over" the sorts of things we have been through- in fact i don't think that you ever really get over it, it just gets easier to deal with.
please remember that you are not weak- you are strong and you are a survivor!
Posted 28 June 2004 - 01:08 PM
Posted 28 June 2004 - 02:49 PM
I'm sorry for your need to be here, but welcome! Everyone is always very supportive. If you ever need anyone to talk to please email me (firstname.lastname@example.org) ok?? :)
Posted 28 June 2004 - 06:37 PM
Posted 01 July 2004 - 06:31 AM
Posted 02 July 2004 - 11:32 AM
Welcome to AS. I understand how difficult it can be to talk about things that happened. Just hang in there, and when you feel comfortable to talk about it, we'll be here to listen. In the mean time, take a look around and make yourself at home.
Posted 06 July 2004 - 02:33 PM
Posted 18 July 2004 - 12:47 PM
We have alot in common I too am 30 and still haven't got over it. You are right about your friends and family not being supportive. i have watched everyone who ever found out run not walk away. I am also new to this forum, just logged in today I guess looking for the same things as you, just to feel not as alone and to get some of my feelings out without alientating myself from the friends I have left.. If you need to talk or vent I will be here.
Best of luck