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|Welcome to After Silence, a message board and chat room designed to help survivors communicate in the recovery of rape, sexual abuse, sexual assault, and all types of sexual violence.
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Hi! Yep, Another Newbie
Posted 19 April 2004 - 12:39 AM
I'm just starting to try to cope with my abuse issues through means other than self-destructive coping mechanisms, so here I am.
I suppose it's customary to tell a bit of our stories?
I was abused by my mother's boyfriend. I can't quite remember how old I was the first time. Somewhere between 9 and 11. The last incident (which wasn't anything big) was when I was 20 or 21.
She just broke up with him a month or so ago, and maybe that's why it's all coming out now. I don't ever have to deal with him again, so it's safe to let it out now.
Oh, and I'm 23 now and happily married. I probably wouldn't be alive now if it wasn't for my husband. Poor guy.
Looking foward to getting to know all of you.
Posted 19 April 2004 - 01:55 AM
Hi Medley, I'm really sorry for what happened to you, but I'm glad you found this place, it's great here and everyone does there best to make you feel comfortable, which helps your healing. It's good to hear you have a great husband who supports you.
Looking forward to getting to know you more
Posted 19 April 2004 - 12:56 PM
welcome to After Silence, I wish you didn't have a reason to be here but I hope that you'll find plenty of support in here.
I'm sorry for all you had to go through, fortunately you have found love and support in your husband, that's wonderful. We never know when these memories and triggers will decide to come up and like you said you are probably allowing yourself to deal with it now bacause you finally feel safe and free of him.
Please feel free to lean on us for support or anything, we;ll make it through this together
sweetie, you don't have to tell anything you are not confortable with....there are no rules when it comes to sharing feelings. Think about yourself frist and what is best for you
Posted 19 April 2004 - 01:46 PM
i'm sorry for what happened to you, but glad that you found this site. i am new too and have found everyone very helpful and supportive. i'm glad to hear that you have someone at home who loves and supports you.
Posted 19 April 2004 - 10:26 PM
Actually this is the first time in months that I haven't been too scared to read replies to my posts on a message board.
Yeah...my husband does help a lot. I told him a little bit when we first started dating, but he didn't know the full story until a couple of days ago.
I also wish none of you had to be here.
Posted 19 April 2004 - 10:43 PM
Please continue to post so that we can get to know you better
Posted 21 April 2004 - 11:44 AM
Take good care.
Posted 22 April 2004 - 03:59 AM
Take precious care of yourself,
Posted 22 April 2004 - 10:31 PM
Posted 22 April 2004 - 10:53 PM
I've been to a lot of boards, but none that are as welcoming and warm as this one.
Posted 23 April 2004 - 05:03 PM
I got smileys working overtime today! hehe!
Wonderful you have a supportive husband,Medley...sure you are finding that care and support here too.
Edited by anonny, 23 April 2004 - 05:04 PM.
Posted 23 April 2004 - 10:53 PM
hi. and another welcome tossed towards you. i'm brand new too (just a couple days old) and i have fallen in love with this place. it really is a good place to have because it is so understanding and caring. i am glad you are here despite the reasons that brought you here. take good care of yourself.
Posted 26 April 2004 - 06:08 PM